A GENTLE SPIRIT Compiled by Bryce Clayton

COME JOIN US AT OLE TIMES COUNTRY BUFFET
Volume 13, Issue 6
November & December
FOR FRIENDS—FOOD—FELLOWSHIP
2014
WHEN
MONDAY—
Inside this issue:
2
Things to
Think About
Quotes, Food
& History
November 3, 2014
November 17, 2014
*No Meetings in
December
3
MEETINGS WILL
RESUME ON
JANUARY 5th
AT OLE TIMES
COUNRTY BUFFET
Christmas Party
Monday Dec. 8nd 5:30 P.M.
All are invited!
In The Magnolia Room
At 2215 N. Patterson St.
Bring a small “gift it forward”
gift (A new way of saying
“re-gift”) to exchange.
Please bring a side dish
or dessert.
Baked ham, bread
and drinks will be
Provided by McLane’s
beginning?”
A student said “No.
Our teacher is such
a great artist that
when we make a mistake, he uses it to
improve the beauty of the pattern.
FOR MORE INFO
CALL 242-5544
Dolores,
Denise
Or Heather
A GENTLE SPIRIT
Compiled by Bryce Clayton
That is what the Lord does with our
mistakes. He is the greatest artist but
we must surrender. Surrender your
blunders to the Lord. He can use
them to make the pattern of your life
more beautiful.
BEAUTY IN BLUNDERS
Corrie ten Boom
“Thy faith hath made thee whole.”
MATTHEW 9:22
I once visited a weaver’s
school where the students were
making beautiful patterns. I asked
“When you make a mistake, must
you cut it out and start from the
Faith came singing into my room,
And other guests took flight.
Sped out into the night.
I wondered that such peace
could be,
But Faith said gently,
“Don’t you see,
That they can never live with me?”
- Elizabeth Cheney
Lord, we can be so depressed when
we blunder. It is wonderful to
know that our mistakes can be useful to You. Because You are
our Master Artist.
November/December 2014 Page 2
An excerpt from…
A Note From
Tyson McLane
WE’VE BEEN THERE
One Reason we are so Committed to an aftercare
program here at McLane Funeral & Cremation Services
is that we know from personal family experience of the
heart ache of death and separation from ones that we
love. Thus, we want to assure you that our caregiving
interest extends far beyond the time of the funeral itself.
Our most recent personal family experiences involved
the death of my brother, Albert McLane on July 25th
and the death of my daughter’s father-in-law, Glen
Pinkston on September 17th of this year. As is true
with all of us, each experience has it’s own grief and
it’s own life lessons. While Albert lived in Canada
and was not able to get back here often, he was still
very much part of us. He has a widow and three sons
that we want to assure of our ongoing love and interest.
Since Glen and I shared three fine grandchildren, I will
have more responsibility as a grandfather to these
growing young people.
Healing A er
Loss
-Daily Medita ons for Working-Through Grief By Martha Whitmore Hickman
I was beginning to do
better, I thought I was
doing better, but a few
days ago
the holidays just hit me.
—WIDOW,
CONTEMPLATING
HER FIRST
CHRISTMAS ALONE
Memories are always there to hook us, to make the
grief fresh again—birthdays, anniversaries, summer
vaca on—any occasion of “the firsts me around”
without our loved one. But the Christmas holidays,
the Hanukkah observances, when the whole world
Part of the life lessons and motivation for us is to
seems poised for celebra on, are among the most
encourage you as you have your own experiences.
difficult mes of year for survivors of loss. Each of us
We should always hold on to the memories of shared has a me-honored list of things “we always do” - go to
love that have blessed our lives in the past. Part of the
services, hang the stockings, light the candles, share
tribute we can give to our departed family members and tradi onal foods. They are part of our iden ty and our
friends is to live each coming day with hope and
joy in being alive in the world together—and now one
purpose. Accepting responsibility to strengthen our
of the key people with whom we shared that joy is
emotional investment and relationship with our loved
gone. Is it any wonder we cringe from the thought of
ones who remain with us is an opportunity and a
the holidays?
potential blessing. Just know that all the others
We will get through it, and probably be er if we can
on our staff can share similar stories from their talk about it with others who are feeling the same loss.
own families. Indeed, we all have been in the
Reaching out to others (The poor, the lonely, the
place of doing grief work because we have been homeless) for whom this is also a difficult season will
there too. Therefore, we will be available to
help, and will express the deeper meaning of the
help whether it is in the nature of assisting
season.
with a task, providing a listening ear, or
whatever would be your need or desire.
Tyson McLane
I know this will be a hard season for me.
I will take one day at a time. I will acknowledge when
grief hovers close. And I will try to be open to times
when joy may surprise me, too.
November/December
Happy
“Why must you
know the details of my
troubles to have compassion?
Is it not enough to show compassion
simply because you know that
everyone has troubles?”
- Richelle E. Goodrich
Five-Minute
Fudge Wreath
Ingredients
1 (12-oz.) bag semi-sweet chocolate morsels
9 oz. (3/4 oz. a 12 oz. bag) butterscotch morsels
1
(14 oz. ) can sweetened condensed milk
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 (8 oz.) can walnut halves
1/2 cup currents
8 inch cake pan, lightly greased with softened butter
Candies cherries , red & green for garnish (optional)
Directions
Holidays
Please Join Us For
McLane Funeral Services
23rd Annual
Memorial Service
December 7, 2014
Since 1992, we have hosted an Annual
Community Memorial Service to pay tribute to
those who have died and to encourage and
comfort those of us who survive them. This
service is for family and friends who have
experienced the hurt and loss due to a death
from
November
1,
2013
through
October 31, 2014.
Our memorial service will be held in
the chapel of Carson McLane Funeral Home on
Sunday, December 7, 2014 at 4 p.m. Our staff
will have a time of prayer prior to the
memorial service for each family who has
experienced a loss within the year.
A lighted memorial tree will be placed on
the front lawn of our funeral home in Valdosta
and a special ornament bearing the name of your
loved one will be placed on the tree. We have
invited a fine group of area clergy and
musicians to lead our service in a time of
remembrance which will conclude with a
candle-lighting ceremony.
Place a heavy pot on the stove and preheat it over
low heat. Add chips and milk and stir until chips are
Please notify others in your circle of family and
melted and milk combined. Save the empty condensed
friends who may want to attend.
milk can. Stir in vanilla and remove fudge from heat.
Add nuts and currants and stir in immediately.
Cover empty condensed milk can with plastic
food wrap and center it in the greased cake pan. Spoon
fudge into pan around can, making sure to recenter can
if it drifts.
The fudge will set up almost immediately.
Garnish can only be added in the first minute or 2 that
the fudge is in the pan, so act quickly. Decorate your
wreath with “holly” made from cut candied red and
green cherries. A wreath left plain can be garnished
with a pretty fabric bow when served. Chill covered in
the refrigerator and slice fudge very thin when ready to
serve (a little goes a long ways).
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Grief is NOT a disorder,
a disease
or a sign of weakness.
It is an emotional, physical
and spiritual NECESSITY,
the price you pay for love.
The only cure for grief
is to grieve.
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& Cremation Services
- Earl Grollman
Holidays For November
& December
Veteran’s Day
November 11, 2014
Thanksgiving Day
November 27, 2014
Hanukkah
December
16 - 24, 2014
Christmas
December 25, 2014