The Jewish Voice, Page 1 VOL. 4 NO. 5 www.seabreezepublications.com MAY 2014 JWF Receives $1 Million Anonymous Gift The Jewish Women’s Foundation of the Greater Palm Beaches (JWF) recently received a gift of $1 million from an anonymous Palm Beach donor. The generous donation enables JWF, a social change advocacy and grant-making organization focused on empowering women and girls, to expand its vital work locally and globally. JWF is a partnership program of the Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County. “JWF offers its donors an opportunity to fund innovative projects that create meaningful social change. This donor is a true visionary — she sets an example for all of us to stand up and give from the heart to support creating a more just and tolerant society,” said JWF founding chair Eileen Berman. “Her intent to remain anonymous and keep the focus on the cause is humbling.” This donation, the largest single gift in the nonprofit’s 10 years, will help make a tangible difference in the lives of women and children, including those who are abused and exploited in violent relationships in their homes and in sex trafficking rings in South Florida and around the world. Funds are also allocated to help those who face social, economic, and political barriers. Kraft Family Cultural Endowment of Temple Israel to Host Dr. Ruth Westheimer Through its Kraft Family Cultural Endowment, Temple Israel of West Palm Beach will bring noted psychosexual therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer to Palm Beach on May 20. Dr. Ruth will be guest speaker at a luncheon to be held at Matteo’s Garden Club Restaurant at 11 a.m. Known for her frank discussions of sexual matters, Westheimer’s career began with her 15-minute radio program, “Sexually Speaking,” in 1980 in New York. One year later, it became a live, one-hour show on which Dr. Ruth, as she became known, answered questions called in from listeners. It soon became part of a communications network to distribute Westheimer’s expertise, which now includes television, books, newspapers, games, home video, computer software, and a website. Born in Germany in 1928, Westheimer was sent to a children’s home in Switzerland at age 10 to escape the Holocaust. At 17 she went to Israel, where she fought for that country’s independence as a member of the Haganah, the Jewish freedom fighters. She immigrated to the U.S. in 1956. Currently, Dr. Ruth is an adjunct professor at NYU and an associate fellow at Yale and Princeton universities. She serves as honorary president of the Council on Sexuality and Aging at the National Sexuality Resource Center and, among her many awards, has received a Liberty Medal from the City of New York and the Israel Cultural Award from Israel Bonds. People magazine included her in their list of the Most Intriguing People of the Century. She received an honorary doctorate from Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion for her work in human sexuality and her commitment to the Jewish people, Israel, and religion. For information, call 833.8421 or visit www.temple-israel.com. The founding trustees of the JWF: Back row from left, Laura Munder, Judy Bergman, Diana Brody, Paula Lustbader (advocacy chair), Sandra Bornstein (lifetime trustee), Edith Gelfand (lifetime trustee), Sandra Krakoff (lifetime trustee), Shirley Siff, Mona Joffe, Joan Daniels, Michelle Lobovits, Barbara Kay (intergenerational trustee), Caryl Siskin, Cynthia Brown. Front row from left: Tami Baldinger (executive director), Eileen Berman (founding chair and lifetime trustee), Gloria Fine (past chair), Lisa Schneider, Phyllis Shuster. “The amazing woman who made this gift is an inspiration to me, and her generosity is already motivating other donors to support JWF’s important work,” shared JWF Executive Director Tami Baldinger. Since its inception, JWF has strategically invested $1.6 million in social change grants that have helped educate and advocate for thousands of women and girls in order to give a voice to those who have none, to foster women’s leadership, and to ensure that women and girls are safe and successful. JWF, unlike typical foundation models, empowers its trustees to be part of the grant making process to help identify key initiatives and allocate funds. In addition to grant making and advocacy, JWF also works to promote young women’s leadership, offering forward-thinking educational programs on timely community issues. For more information, visit jwfpb.org or call 242.6673. JCC Welcomes New Art Exhibit in Bente S. & Daniel M. Lyons Art Gallery By Mindy Hanken Since its opening i n N o v e m b e r, t h e Bente S. & Daniel M. Lyons Art Gallery in the Mandel JCC Palm Beach Gardens has hosted a variety of dynamic and captivating artwork from sculptures to embroidery created by world renowned Jewish artists. This month, another remarkable exhibit will be presented: Artist Leon Azoulay, from the Tzfat region in Israel, will showcase Exodus Chapter 1 his paintings from May 13, 2014 through June JCC Welcomes New Art on page 2 Page 2, The Jewish Voice JCC Welcomes New Art from page 1 13, 2014. To celebrate the exhibit’s opening, Azoulay will join us for a wine and cheese reception on May 13, 2014 at 5:00 p.m. One of the most exciting aspects of this exhibit is the artist’s background. Azoulay’s time living in the ancient Israel town of Safed, the birthplace of Jewish mysticism, greatly influenced his paintings. In a unique fusion of micro-calligraphy and painting, Azoulay’s works depict scenes from the Tanach with biblical passages written in tiny letters throughout the painting. For example, his painting titled “Creation” not only shows a rendition of the story of Creation, it is also composed of the entire book of Genesis in micro-calligraphy. There are many fantastic art galleries and exhibits around Palm Beach County. What makes this exhibit special is its connection to Judaism and the extraordinary way that Azoulay infuses micro-calligraphy into his paintings. Here at the Mandel JCC, we’re all very excited to welcome the artist, and we would love for the community to help us celebrate at the free opening night reception. The Complete Book of Psalms For more information, visit www.jcconline.com or call 712-5200. Mindy Hanken is chief operating officer of Mandel JCC of the Palm Beaches. Email her at [email protected]. The Road Less Traveled Should Not Be The One To Your Home By Doreen Nystrom Last month I tried to educate you on the cons of overpricing your home ... why pricing it at fair market value is the best way right from the start for many reasons. For this issue, let’s discuss showing availability! There are so many times a seller will tell their agent that they don’t want to show the home between this time and that time, or on Monday, Wednesday and Friday, or they want a minimum Real Estate of 24 to 48 hours notice, or they want to be present at every showing, or they want their Realtor present at every showing, ... this can get to be a very long run-on sentence! Nothing will deter another agent from showing their prospective buyer a home more than complicated showing instructions. If it is too difficult to show, they will move on to another home. Trust me, it happens all of the time. While no one expects your home to be available to show 24 hours a day, seven days a week, if you truly want to sell, you need to first get buyers through the door to see your home! Your Realtor should exercise that backbone to tell you honestly how it really works out there. They should be able to explain to you why ease of showing is imperative ... and why, in my opinion, they should not be required to be present at every showing, too! No one can tell you when someone will call to set up a showing, so how can the Realtor be expected to be available every time someone wants to show? Why take the chance of missing a showing if they are not available? If you are concerned with valuables being in the home, remove them! Depending on how the Realtor submits the instructions in the MLS system, usually Realtors first must call the listing office for showing instructions, and at our company, we first look them up in the Realtor system, verify them, and we log all of their information so we know who, what, where and when! What is your Realtor’s company system? You need to know and you need to ask. You would be surprised at how many offices do not even have someone answering the phones on weekends. Or the instructions given say to call the listing agent directly, and then there is no returned phone call. I have encountered this many, many times. Keep your home available to show as simple as possible. Easy to show and it will get shown. The more buyers through, the more opportunities to sell! You can reach Doreen Nystrom at Lang Realty at [email protected] or (561) 209-7900. The Jewish Voice, Page 3 From the Rabbis Remembering the Shoah One Name at a Time By Rabbi Michael P. Singer Every day, new studies are being initiated and conducted to determine the effects of the use of technology on our memories. Think about it: At one point in the not-toodistant past, people had to memorize historical dates, the Preamble of the Constitution, how to spell words correctly, and yes, other people’s phone numbers (as well as their own). Today such information is literally only a click or voice command away. Even the passwords we use to “protect” our information can be stored and saved in case we forget them. I am not suggesting that we can or should turn back the clock or that we as a society would even want to. We are indeed privileged to live at this exciting time, and have a world of information accessible earlier generations would be envious of. Yet, there is still an important place for first hand use of human memory. Making memories entails taking the information around us and internalizing it in a way that not only creates neuro-pathways in our brain but literally becomes part of who we are. This is more than doing a Google search or posting on Facebook. In fact research1 shows that posts, tweets, and texts engage only short term memory, they are quick, in the moment, snapshots that don’t last long because they are followed by more posts, tweets, and texts. Arguably, this is indeed the purpose of this type of media communication but, as far as the faculty of memory is concerned this does not translate to creating long-term memories that change, enhance, and enrich us. As Jews living after the horror of the Shoah (The Holocaust) we have often been taught, “Never Forget!” But, how do we do that? Especially in our world today?! Unlike so many of the other holidays and commemorations in the Jewish life-cycle and calendar, Yom HaShoah (Holocaust Remembrance Day) does not have a universally accepted ritual, sacred text, or even communal service of some type (let alone special foods or lack thereof). I believe that it is through these rituals that we as Jews, have been not only able to maintain our traditions but as important been able to create memories that literally transform and touch our souls. They bring meaning to our lives by connecting us through the generations, informing our relationships, our values, and our moral perspective. Which brings us back to the challenge of Yom HaShoah. With very few survivors left, how can we ensure that their stories and those of the millions of Jews who perished will not be forgotten? One way my synagogue has found to create powerful memories is by holding a Yom HaShoah vigil in which we read the names of those who perished in the Shoah. People sign up to read names and to come and listen throughout the day beginning after morning services and continuing for 12 hours, stopping only for minchah/ma’ariv, when we recite the Mourner’s Kaddish in remembrance. Families come to read together, to our teens and older members — we read their names, we hear their names — and in doing so I feel we not only keep their memory alive, but make our own powerful memories. The sacred duty to never forget becomes not only a surreal number to remember but, real mothers, fathers, and children. The Nazis counted numbers but we remember names. We have always believed that names carry memory. As Jews we remember loved ones by naming our children after them. We still use the ancient names from our Torah — Adam, Seth, Jacob, Rachel, Sarah. It is no coincidence then that our people’s Hebrew name — Yisrael — links God’s name with ours. By remembering the names of our brothers and sisters who perished in the Shoah we link their names and lives with our own. And in that way may all of their names be for a blessing — one we never need a password to remember. 1 “How Technology Is Warping Your Memory,” By Carolyn Gregoire, The Huffington Post. Rabbi Michael Singer is spiritual leader at Temple Beth David in Palm Beach Gardens. Email him at RabbiSinger@ yahoo.com. The Most Powerful Ways to Deal with Hardships By Rabbi Shlomo Ezagui Everybody has them. Pot holes and speed bumps in the road of life. How do we overcome, or at the very least move on, notwithstanding the obstacles that give us a real run for our money? The Bible is clear: We don’t live in a disorganized, random, chaotic world. It also makes very good, logical sense to think and believe this way. When there is an order and system to things, with our free choice, we can sometimes intentionally or unintentionally make decisions that challenge and attempt to defy the order G-d has set in this world. To a great measure, the Bible tells us it is our very own choices that bring us the hardships we face in life. It is we who mess up the perfect pattern G-d created. Nevertheless, chassidus teaches to always accept everything in joy. Joy is the fundamental underlying elixir to everything in life. But how is it possible to accept and bear it all, and do it in joy? Chassidus gives us the tools and techniques how exactly we should, and we can, deal with our difficulties in life. Humans have a definite spectrum and parameter in which they can see and hear things. Some animals and creatures see and hear more because their range is wider and deeper. The same is also with our minds, they are finite and limited. The first method is to look at what’s happening, as coming from an infinite G-d who is way beyond our possibility to understand. G-d is the source of everything and He is, by His very own nature, essentially good. We surrender ourselves to this fact and even when, at the present, things appear as dark, confusing, and incomprehensible, the knowledge that the pain we feel is from a doctor who cares helps us keep a happy attitude. The second method is to view the pain and difficulties as From the Rabbis on page 4 Page 4, The Jewish Voice From the Rabbis from page 3 Is Your Jewish Soul Pinging a process to polish and clean parts of our lives we may have bent out of shape or sullied with our bad choices. It is to make us better and stronger than what we are at this present moment. Out of G-d’s deep-rooted love for ourselves He puts us through a procedure that corrects and remedies where we may have messed up. When a person sees his hardships as coming from the love of G-d to help this person who messed up, this arouses within G-d the desire to minimize and hasten the process. This second approach shortens the process itself. The third method is to view hardships as an intentional test G-d is putting the person through. G-d wants to see if we will take the hardship more seriously than our determination to keep on going. In this third step a person is completely and totally not fazed by the difficulties. The person knows what’s expected of him and nothing will stop him. It’s not a matter of the intended good G-d has in mind; it’s not either whether G-d is doing this out of love or not. With this reaction to hardships and with determination, the person is totally at peace with the situation because he knows he can never fail at doing his G-dly mission. The test then disappears because he has successfully overcome the test and proven himself. There is a highest and most powerful attitude where the person doesn’t deal with any of the above three approaches. On this level, he doesn’t even encounter the first tastes of the test and/or and hardships. This is when he develops a very deep knowledge and appreciation for G-ds wise and benevolent interaction with the world, to such a point that he sees and experiences everything for the good, right from the start. Once a great rabbi sent his student to Reb Zushe, who had every imaginable difficulty in life, to learn how to respond to hardships in life. Reb Zushe told him he must have come to the wrong Reb Zushe, because this Zushe had no problems. By Rabbi Dovid Vigler Rabbi Shlomo Ezagui is spiritual leader of Chabad House Lubavitch of Palm Beach. HEAL ME HONEY ANTI AGING EYE SERUM & FACE CREAM WITH FRESH ROYAL JELLY RAW LOCAL HONEY FRESH ROYAL JELLY ENERGY HONEY ALLERGY HONEY LIP GLOSS CREAM HONEYS Ping. The last desperate attempt of uncovering the fate of the 239 passengers of Malaysian Airlines Flight MH 370 that has kept the world in suspense with bated breath. In a coincidence bordering on the miraculous, advance “ping detector” ships and towed submarines recently detected a ping signal consistent with that of the Malaysian Flight for just 90 seconds. The black box of the airplane has battery power to send a ping signal every second for 30 days. It seems this week’s 90-second signal was in the last 90 seconds of the battery of the black box! Indeed, each and every Jew, too, has a ping signal, a homing device. Unlike the black box of lost airplanes, it might go many months or years without emitting a signal. But the battery never dies out. A Jew might live a life of decadence and G-dlessness for 80 or 90 years, but the time will come, later if not sooner, that his guilty conscience will start to beep. The Yiddishe neshoma, also known as the pintele yid, the Jewish core, cannot and will not be forgotten. It will do whatever it takes to be noticed. At the seder we speak of four sons: the wise one, the chilled-out one, the simple one, and the one who doesn’t know what’s going on. All these four kinds of Jews at least are present at the seder table. There is a fifth kind of Jew, who doesn’t even know that it is Passover. Though he might not even realize it himself, he has a pintele yid inside that desperately wants to be found. We all know this fifth son. We’re just too embarrassed to invite him to our seder. Think of him as MH370. He is lost at sea and yearning to be found. Reach out to him with love. Invite him to your seder, or your Shabbat table, or your shul. It’s never too late to come home! Rabbi Dovid Vigler is spiritual leader at Chabad of Palm Beach Gardens and host of the Jewish Schmooze Radio Show. Email him at [email protected]. MorseLife’s Keith Myers Named Among Ultimate CEOs Keith A. Myers, President/CEO of MorseLife, Inc., has been named among the 10 honorees in the 2014 Palm Beach CEO Awards. These awards are given annually by the South Florida Business Journal, highlighting the county’s 10 chief executives for their expertise, leadership, and community involvement. Myers has served at the helm of MorseLife Keith A. Myers since 2007. He has a significant background in the management of multifaceted health care organizations and particular expertise in operations, financial management, quality improvement, strategic planning, board relations, and institutional advancement. Most recently under his leadership, MorseLife embarked on a major capital project to serve the needs of new generations of seniors that includes construction of a 120-bed, short-term rehabilitation center, renovation of its nursing home and creation of a 52-unit assisted living residence for seniors with memory impairment and the addition of 30 new long-term beds for seniors with advanced dementia. The total cost of these projects is $50 million with half of it raised through philanthropic giving. In January, MorseLife opened the first phase, the Sondra & David S. Mack Pavilion for Short-Term Rehabilitation. Myers also serves as chair for the Florida Board of Nursing Home Administrators, a gubernatorial appointment. Additionally, he is on the board of directors of the Florida Health Care Association’s Quality Foundation and on the Advisory Committee for the George H. Heyman Jr. Center for Philanthropy and Fundraising of New York University. 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Before the needlepoint work began, the tapestry was custom designed with artist Anthony Burks after Norm accumulated 20 pages of notes based on conversations with JCC Board members. He had a goal of creating a custom piece to highlight the most special and central components of the Mandel JCC Palm Beach Gardens. Everything from culture, art, film, sports, to family, spirit, Judaism, celebration, and culture. The center of the tapestry contains the flags of Israel and the Norm Lieber and the JCC staff hold the completed tapestry. United States. Directly below is a huge heart showing hands reaching for hope; the Star To see the completed tapestry, visit the Mandel JCC in of David anchors the JCC’s commitment to the Jewish Palm Beach Gardens. community. These images symbolize the mission of the JCC. Please support your Jewish businesses and Norm has been creating original designed handnewspaper by advertising and sending your events and stitched needlepoint tapestries since 1983. 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(561) 746-3244 FAX (561) 746-2509 Call us today and let us host your special day! 1-95 to Donald Ross - Jupiter Exit East to Parkside, then left Events - 561.622.0036 Page 6, The Jewish Voice Beth David Hosts Area Temples at Tenth Annual “Immigration Day” Last month, Temple Beth David traveled back in time. More than 100 sixth-graders from northern Palm Beach County, together with their parents, gathered for a day of role playing and reliving the early 20th-century Jewish immigrant experience. This “Immigration Day” program, an annual event, was begun more than 10 years ago and has always been hosted by Temple Beth David. All area congregations are invited to participate. This year, along Temple Beth David, Temples Judea, Beth Am, Beit HaYam, and Beth Torah took part in this exciting and still meaningful and resonant event. Students, dressed in garb inspired by historical photos, films, and the costumes depicted in productions of Fiddler on the Roof, imagined themselves as residents of a shtetl, a small-town Jewish community in the Pale of Settlement in late 19th century and early 20th century Russia. Beth David’s courtyard was transformed into a shtetl village square, Howard A. Green, MD Harvard University Richard A. Krathen, MD Baylor College of Medicine Board Certified in Dermatology Fellowship Trained in Mohs Surgery * * * * * * Skin Cancer Specialists Mohs Surgery Cosmetic Treatments Board Certified Most Insurance Accepted Immediate Availability Cantor Danielle Bensimhon of Temple Beth David and Brett Tanzer of Temple Beth Am lead singing at Immigration Day. Student “immigrants” being designated to migrate to the U.S. or Palestine. where students attended different stations, each run by one of the many participating synagogues, depicting Jewish life and values. Students created Havdalah spice bags, representing the importance of Shabbat; made Hebrew name bracelets, illustrating the role of the shtetl school, known as the chayder. They also learned about the different levels of t z ed a k a h ( r i g h t eo u s S t u d e n t “ i m m i g r a n t s ” i n charitable giving),and “quarantine” were exposed to the early Zionism of the 20th century. Participants learned about the teamwork that was instrumental in the early days of the Zionist movement in Russia. There was even a wedding, featuring students playing the roles of rabbi, bride, groom, and even father-inlaw! Lest one think that the students had all the fun, so too did parents, who also Mock wedding at Immigration Day had specific roles. Yet fun was mixed with a measure of more somber remembrance and with learning as well. During the “wedding,” parents (dressed in black) staged a “mock pogrom,” herding the students (with a lot of faux-rage and much real jocularity) into Beth Students in shtetl garb make Hebrew David’s sanctuary, name bracelets. where Temple Beit HaYam’s Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser and Temple Beth David’s Director of Congregational Learning Peter Eckstein framed the process of how embattled and persecuted turn-of-thecentury Jewish communities decided on how to emigrate in order to create a new life in the two centers of Jewish living — America (the Goldene Madinah, or Golden Land) and Palestine (Eretz Yisrael). Students then went through a simulated immigration process of being designated to go either to America or to Palestine. The “visa officials” were also parents, dressed in appropriate garb. They all “boarded a ship” (a converted room with blue fabric covering the walls, simulating the sea) and heard real-life stories of emigration and immigration, shared by adults and children. Then the students went through “medical exams” and citizenship interviews, accompanied by questions such as, “Have you ever had tuberculosis?” “Do you have a job waiting for you?” and even “Are you a Communist?”— all Tenth Annual “Immigration Day” on page 7 WE BUY CARS ALL MAKES & MODELS Call us Today at: (561) 622-6976 WE COME TO YOU 10335 North Military Trail, Suite A Palm Beach Gardens, FL 33410 FREE QUOTES (561) 248-1903 Training Experience Location at Military Trail and Burns Road • LICENSED • BONDED • INSURED The Jewish Voice, Page 7 Tenth Annual “Immigration Day” from page 6 being asked emphatically by parents, in their assigned roles as immigration officials and doctors. Students were even “rejected” for a time, and were placed into “quarantine” when they did not fit the “criteria” as determined by their “interrogators.” These exercises and role-playing could never equal the trials endured by so many of our familial antecedents, and they were in fact not intended to do so. The “Immigration Day” program was conceived and executed with sensitivity to our children, not to frighten, but rather as a day of fun and learning. An exciting innovation in this year’s iteration of the program was a virtual tour of Philadelphia’s National Museum of American Jewish History, which was made available prior to the program through the efforts of the West Palm Beach Friedman Commission for Jewish Education. The museum prepared a PowerPoint lesson introducing key concepts, exhibits, and documents related to the American Jewish immigration experience. In the end all the students “arrived” in the U.S. and Eretz Yisrael, celebrating their arrival with a traditional American meal of hot dogs and chips. All in all, children and parents had a wonderful, fun, and yet meaningful learning experience that they won’t soon forget. Skylar Rose Margolis, Emily Binder, and Brielle Yudenfreund receive “entry visas” at Immigration Day. TRADITIONAL ENGLISH AFTERNOON TEA Scones are served warm from the oven with Devonshire clotted cream and jam. Dainty tea sandwiches of egg salad and chicken salad with arugula arrive alongside the delicious pastries and confections. $26 per person ($34 with Champagne/Wine) for Afternoon Tea. Bridal showers and baby shower high teas available The One School PTO at Temple Beth Am Raises Funds for School and Community Needs The PTO (Parent Teacher Organization) of The One School at Temple Beth Am hosted its 12th Annual Denim & Diamonds Night Out Gala at the Abacoa Golf Club in Jupiter. This year’s event honored Bruce and Maureen Cohen, residents of Palm Beach Gardens, owners of Nutrition World, and Temple Beth Am members since 2005. The Gala recognized Bruce and Maureen for their incredible spirit of volunteerism, kindness, and friendship that they bring to Temple Beth Am, The One School, and the local community. The event featured a live and silent auction, dancing, and live music by 3sixty. The Denim & Diamonds affair, chaired by Yael Lawrence, brought together more than 170 people for an evening of fun and festivities. Guests included United States Congressman Patrick Murphy, Rabbi Alon and Gali Levkovitz of Temple Beth Am, Temple Beth Am PTO President Amy Russell, Temple Beth Am President Hal Baseman, and local community members. This year’s Gala raised over $30,000 in proceeds that will directly benefit The One School PTO, which provides curriculum and social enrichment activities and support to students, administration, teachers, and staff. Gali Levkovitz (right) presents The One School is honorees Bruce and Maureen NAEYC accredited Cohen at The One School Denim & and serves children Diamonds Night Out Gala. ages 18 months through five years old. Funds raised at this annual event also support special community programming for children from low-income families, including The One School’s Annual Thanksgiving Program with Jupiter Head Start. For information about next year’s Gala, contact The One School at Temple Beth Am 747.3339. Night Out Gala Chairwoman Yael Lawrence (on right) and members of The One School at Temple Beth Am PTO Alec Wisch, Rabbi Alon Levkovitz, Honoree Bruce Cohen, and United States Congressman Patrick Murphy 363 Cocoanut Row, Palm Beach (561) 659-5800 Quoted prices are exclusive of taxes and gratuities. Complimentary valet parking. special treat, add a glass of Champagne or wine. The One School honorees Bruce and Maureen Cohen with their family Page 8, The Jewish Voice Local Happenings Beth David’s Annual Gala Looks Back and Ahead as it Honors Past Presidents clergy smoother and more pleasant. Susann has earned and won the devotion and affection of Beth David’s congregants by living the credo of leading by serving, as well as serving by leading. Silent and live auctions, educational fund drives, sales of reserved temple parking spaces, and a fully subscribed ad journal to salute the honorees and commemorate the evening and the Gala Temple Beth David held its Annual Gala in its social halls, lobby, and garden. It was truly a historic event in that the honorees of this year’s Gala were the temple’s past presidents, all of whom guided Beth David’s growth for the almost 40 years since its founding in northern Palm Beach County. This festive celebration and the stories of and offered by the generations of the temple’s leaders made for a moving, proud and yet joyous and exuberant time of reflection on Temple Beth David’s history and growth. Many eyes misted over as Beth David’s past and current leaders and members harkened back to the days of the congregation’s beginnings, when both it, and the Palm President Jeff Zane presents honors, Beach Gardens and entire north county area appeared and flowers, and certificate to long-time were very different from how we see and experience them Beth David Executive Director today. Temple Beth David began its story while being Susann Ferrara. housed in a church, and eventually secured the land on which initial construction took place. In later years, a major expansion gave rise to the current beautiful, modern complex that welcomes friends, neighbors, and the community to multiple sanctuaries, a large, open public lobby, an expansive social hall and meeting rooms, a school wing, administrative officers, and a gift shop. The membership happily welcomed its past presidents to the Annual Gala and were grateful to join with them as all basked in the glow of mutual achievement and congregational success. Also honored that evening was long-time Beth David Executive Director Susann Ferrara, who has been at the forefront of helping to forge this proud history during her past 18 years of outstanding service to the temple and Executive Director Susan Ferrara (front row, center) surrounded by past presidents of Temple Beth David its members. 2014 has been a year of well-deserved recognition for Susann, who was also honored at the conference of the North American Association of Synagogue Directors (NAASE) held in Toronto this past March. Susann’s tenure at Beth David has always been distinguished by her efforts of body, mind, spirit, and heart that have always extended far beyond the norm. She has served as a trusted aide, advisor, and confidant to temple presidents, as a mentor, guide, and inspiration to scores of temple lay volunteers, sustaining them with patience, good cheer, and kindness, and has made the path of the temple’s A partial display of Silent Auction items at Beth David’s Annual Gala Past President Irwin Shipper with Cantor Danielle Bensimhon and her daughter Lila Hours: Mon-Fri 7am - 7pm Saturday 8am - 3pm We Will Match all coMpetitors’ coupons! 561-744-1455 (Pick up & Delivery Number) 15050 US Hwy. 1, Juno Beach, FL 561-799-4061 We will honor all competitors’ coupons Beth David Social Hall being prepared for Annual Gala gave both the opportunity for and the evidence of the generous support of the temple by those who make up the temple family that has always been a hallmark of Beth David, and will help to insure its future even during the appreciation and celebration of its past. Several hours of lively music, delicious food, wonderful drink, and engaging entertainment framed this terrific night of both memory and hope. At Temple Beth David, Lessons Taught, Lessons Learned, Lessons Lived Some say it takes a village. The Temple Beth David family both teaches and lives by the Jewish credo of tikun olam, heal the world. Although there is much that is common to both of these approaches and philosophies, there is at the base of each one essential truism: It always takes at least one person to get things started. P h i l i p W e i n t h a l , Philip Weinthal, founder of a 12-year-old boy from Buddies 4 Life. Temple Beth David, wanted to find a bar mitzvah community service project that was true to these ideals as he learned them throughout his education in Beth David’s religious school, and as imbued in him by his family. He also wanted to undertake an effort he could be proud of and continue through high school. 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Hurricane proof garage door & full metal hurricane shutters. Great split floor plan, nice high ceilings & a large open kitchen. $479,900 Page 10, The Jewish Voice Local Happenings from page 8 Brett Taylor, Philip Weinthal, and Jonathan Hauser at first Buddies 4 Life event Life held its inaugural program. Through his website www. Buddies4Life.org, kids and their parents signed up for a bowling get-together. All proceeds, which totaled over $200, were donated directly to the charity Autism Speaks. Buddying children with challenges with other children is something Philip will continue during his next program on May 18 at 3 p.m. at City Soccer in West Palm Beach. Philip’s hopes are that many of these new “buddies” will continue to set up their own activities in addition to those that he sets up, and that these kids will form ongoing friendships and truly become Buddies 4 Life. It does take a village — and Philip was one of the leaders. And it will help to heal the world — and Philip did practice the credo of tikun olam. And it does take at least one person to get things started — and Philip did. And the foundation of family and the teachings of the Temple Beth David Religious School bring all of these lessons together. Everyone can make a difference! To find out how, check out Buddies4Life.org. Kids participate in crafts. Temple Beth Am goes Potluck for Seder Jacob Weinthal, Lance Brown, and Bradley Lesserson enjoy bowling at Buddies 4 Life. The spirit of kulanu (all of us together) was alive and well at Temple Beth Am in Jupiter during its Potluck Seder for the second night of Passover. Each family was assigned either a vegetable or a starch, and side dishes were randomly doled out to tables. When it came time to eat, it was fun to watch people searching the room for their own dishes, meeting members they may not normally have had the chance to interact with. Main courses, including soup, brisket, and salmon, were prepared by volunteers and temple staff, working for days to bring good old-fashioned Jewish home cooking to the capacity crowd. Over 200 people attended the seder; among the more notable guests was United States Congressman Patrick Murphy, who seemed to enjoy the multigenerational celebration of freedom, as well as the brisket. Led by Rabbi Alon, the seder included a custom-made Haggadah, created by a team of temple staff and member Seder guests include United States Congressman Patrick Murphy (right) and Temple member Al Newman. Jason Rogers, who volunteered his computer and design skills to lay out the full-color 60-page text. In addition, the seder was enhanced through video clips and spirited songs led by Cantor Jessica Turnoff Ferrari and Music Director Brett Tancer. The night ended with a mass afikoman hunt for the kids and tables filled with sweet Passover desserts. Everyone will agree, if we aren’t in Jerusalem next year, Temple Beth Am’s seder will do just fine. Philip Weinthal (second from left) with Buddies 4 Life children with special challenges did not always seem to have the same opportunities for socialization as he and his friends did. For Philip, it was at that moment that his breakthrough came — all at once, his family’s ideals, the credos of his Jewish education and the lessons taught to him at Temple Beth David coalesced. He decided to create a program to integrate children with challenges with other children in friendly, recreational and non-threatening social situations. After much thought, planning and tweaking, Philip created a website and blog. He called his program Buddies 4 Life and his dream began to take shape. Last month, Buddies 4 Temple Beth Am member Leona Holland prepares matzah ball soup for the Potluck Seder. Music Director Brett Tancer (right) leading songs at Potluck Seder. 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The Jewish Voice, Page 11 Local Happenings from page 10 Temple Judea Women’s Seder Temple Judea hosted its Sixth Annual Women’s Passover Seder in keeping with this year’s tradition of celebrating the Legacy of Temple Judea. As Passover is a time for telling the story of the Exodus from Egypt, participants paralleled that story with the story of the temple through the eyes of all the women who have made it great. Each is a part of Temple Judea’s story and each has a place in the future legacy of TJ. Each generation was encouraged to be a part MIRASOL 114 Via Palacio $3,695,000 BALLENISLES 10 St. George OLD PALM 11770 Calleta Court $3,995,000 $3,395,000 MIRASOL 104 Remo Place BALLENISLES 212 Coconut Key STEEPLECHASE 5558 High Flyer $1,599,000 $949,000 $2,695,000 of the seder, and 135 and mothers an d d a u g h ter s , grandmothers and greatgrandmothers gathered to celebrate Jewish women. Cantor Alicia Stillman led these four generations of women as they shared their diverse stories with each other throughout the evening. Everyone shared Passover memories, talked about heroic women in their lives, discussed the lights in their lives, and imagined what they wanted to wash off this y e a r, w i t h t h e coming of spring. New friendships were developed and old friends enjoyed learning a little more about one another. A delicious dinner was catered by Cafe Cocoanut. 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Her paintings and sketches are equally stunning.” Chaya works in the media of borosilicate glass and watercolor paints. Her art touches on themes of the Land of Israel, Jewish women, Torah and Kabbalah, great mystics, and inner light. “G-d formed man out of the dust of the earth, and He blew into his nostrils a breath of life.” (Gen. 2:7). Of fascination is how this is likened to the process of blowing glass in the Kabbalah, as glass blowing begins with the breath of the glassblower that flows as a wind through the glassblowing pipe, and finally comes to rest in the vessel that is being formed. Chaya studied at Princeton University, majoring in visual art and art history with a concentration in painting. After graduating, she immigrated to Israel. There, the land, the people, and a rich tradition of spiritual teachings brought a new, deeper dimension to her work. Learn more at www. shevachaya.com. last month. The event was a special endeavor with representatives of the black and Jewish communities taking part in officiating the seder. Glass blowing pieces by Sheva Chaya Seder Celebrates Unity The American Jewish Committee Palm Beach C o u n t y a n d t h e F. Malcolm Cunningham Sr. Bar Association and friends took part in a special seder titled A Celebration of Unity, Freedom and Humanity Local Happenings on page 13 The Jewish Voice, Page 13 Local Happenings from page 12 Golf Tournament a Great Success Last month, more than 110 golfers hit the Squire and Palmer courses at PGA National in support of Temple Judea’s 11th Annual Golf Tournament. This event is TJ’s largest annual fundraiser and was co-chaired by Joan Hoffman, Matt Kutner, and Walter Schiff. Golfers began their day with a box lunch followed by recordbreaking 4.5-hour course play, which included a putting contest, hole in one contest, and closest-to-the-pin contest. Winners of each flight received gift certificates to PGA Resort & Spa. After their time on the course, everyone enjoyed a celebratory cocktail hour followed by a traditional sunset barbeque and ice cream bar on the outdoor pavilion. This event was sponsored by Lisa and Eric Glasband, Jessica and Matt Kutner, and Sydelle Sonkin and Herb Siegel. The Golf Tournament also included a raffle with more than 70 prizes being distributed and a terrific on-line auction. The event was a great success and the temple is looking forward to hosting it again next year. Local Happenings on page 14 For the thrill of the hunt ... and to change people’s lives “ Hospice took care of all of us so we could enjoy each day together. ” - Steve Macht Spring Cleaning? Donating couldn’t be easier! FREE pick-up of large items by trusted employees. Donations are tax-deductible! All proceeds support hospice patients & families. Donate ✽ Purchase ✽ Volunteer 20% off* Your Purchases! *Offer cannot be combined with other discounts or coupons CENTRAL SHOP NORTH SHOP Palm Beach Commons 1324 N. Military Trail West Palm Beach (561) 681-6511 Plaza La Mer 863 Donald Ross Road Juno Beach (561) 624-5495 Hours: Mon. - Sat. 10 am - 5 pm • hpbcf.org SB DEC13 Page 14, The Jewish Voice Local Happenings from page 13 Tea Time for “Top of the Hill Gang” Intimate describes the ambience at Teapots and Treasures Café in Palm Beach Gardens, where 13 lucky ladies participated in an afternoon tea. All enjoyed cozy conversations, and a sumptuous assortment of teas, scones, finger sandwiches, and delectable desserts. The event was arranged by Temple Beth Am’s “Top of the Hill Gang,” a group of people at their peak who crave experiences unavailable elsewhere. Past adventures included an outing to Busch Wildlife Refuge with lunch and a wine tasting. If you’re old enough to know better other adorable animals. Indoors, the synagogue social hall was converted into a playground and arcade, with scooter races, knock-the-bottle-down contests, magnetic darts, bowling, and a bounce house, among many other attractions. All in all everyone had a wonderful time getting into the Purim spirit. It was truly a time of joy and happiness! and young enough to do it anyway, then join us. All are welcome to participate in these events. For more information, call Temple Beth Am at 747.1109 o r v i s i t w w w. templebetham. com. Judea Visits Morikami Gardens Rita Silverman pours tea for Temple Beth Am’s “Top of the Hill Gang” gathering at Teapots and Treasures. Beth David’s Purim Carnival – the Happiest Day of the Year! The Day Away at the Morikami Gardens was thoroughly enjoyed by all. Participants had a wonderful luncheon with a Japanese Bento Box! The gardens are exquisite and the docents gave some real insight into the history of the gardens. The group also visited the museum and could not leave without a stop in the amazing gift shop. In the Jewish tradition, Purim is considered the happiest day of the year, and this was demonstrated once again at Temple Beth David’s Annual Purim Carnival. A throng of more than 120 children and parents took part in a daylong celebration of food, fun, and festivities as they embraced this holiday of joy, liberation, and triumph. Along with hotdogs, chips, and soft drinks, carnival attendees partook in Jen Goldin face-paints at a wide variety of homemade Purim Carnival. hamentaschen baked by Temple Beth David members. The wonderful aroma of cotton candy wafted throughout the synagogue. A caricaturist Tea Time for “Top of the Hill Gang” Enjoying an afternoon tea and conversation with “Top of the Hill Gang” friends Enjoying the ride at Beth David’s Purim Carnival When Quality Counts Paver Sealing Residential & Estate Homes Professional Reliable Services Free Estimates Caulking Windows-Mirrors Riding the slide at the Beth David Purim Carnival Pressure Cleaning Licensed & Insured Beth David Celebrates Luck of Irish, Mazel of Jews! www.BeavsWindowCleaning.com A funny thing happens when you forget to market your business ... Steve Roseman and Pam Schlamowitz dispense hamentaschen. created light-hearted images of children and their families, and many young people scurried into and out of the building with their faces painted in a variety of colors and designs. Outside the building, in the Beth David parking lot, the young as well as the young at heart had many kinds of rides and attractions from which to choose. The youngest participants rode on a trackless train, while older children enjoyed Bungee Basketball, a sea-themed giant slide, and an out-of-this world trampoline. Of course, no one could resist stopping by the petting zoo to see the newly born lambs and March 17 is a date on which many of our Irish friends and neighbors celebrate St. Patrick’s Day, and many of the rest of us can ourselves feel Irish for just a little while. Temple Beth David celebrated Ireland and some of the commonalities among Irish and Jewish culture in an evening program titled Luck of the Irish, Mazel of the Jews! Jews enjoy a well-deserved reputation as aficionados of corned beef, so the program featured homemade corned beef and cabbage created by Beth David’s resident top chef and rabbi, Michael Singer. To enhance this culinary treat, 20 different types of beer were served, chosen by the temple’s brew master and director of congregational learning, Peter Eckstein. In addition to eating and drinking, participants took part in some learning as well. Since it wouldn’t be St. Patrick’s Day without at least some rumination on the subject of luck, as the attendees imbibed, Rabbi Singer held forth with an Local Happenings on page 15 The Jewish Voice, Page 15 Local Happenings from page 14 Judea Purim Extravaganza Beth David members Stefan and Elena Ordentlich flank member Bill Beer at the celebration of Irish and Jewish luck. Temple Judea’s Yo u t h E d u c a t i o n Program Purim Extravaganza, the best in years, was a huge success. Members of the community and temple members came out in costume to celebrate the Purim festival. Highlights of the carnival were the Crazy Eddie Juggling Show and the Megillah Puppet Show. Everyone left full of prizes and treats from cotton candy and popcorn to a fabulous BBQ. exploration of the roots of Irish symbols of luck, such as the four-leaf clover and the Irish Five Pence, along with some Jewish good luck symbols, such as the hamsa and ancient talmudic amulets, or kame’a. But not all of the learning was serious. Eckstein offered a happy dissertation on the history of beer, from ancient Egypt to the modern American Craft Brewing movement. By the end of the program, participants were basking in the pleasant glow of good food, golden yeast and hops, and feeling a wonderful sense of good luck and good fortune for having attended as they began to check their calendars for the start of the next beer-tasting and culinary event, Temple Beth David style. Scott Notowitz Announced as New ADL Florida Chair The Anti-Defamation League (ADL) is proud to announce the installment of Scott Notowitz as its new Florida Regional Chair. Notowitz is a community leader and senior financial advisor and vice president in the Boca Raton office of Merrill Lynch, with over 30 years of combined business and investment experience. Notowitz replaces Steven L. Daniels of West Palm Beach, Scott Notowitz, ADL Florida who served as chair for two Regional Chair years. “I am so honored to be the new ADL Florida Regional Board Chair as I have a passion for ADL’s clear and precise mission statement of combating hate of all kinds,” stated Notowitz. “ADL’s anti-bias educational programs such as No Place for Hate, its signature anti-bullying/cyberbullying initiative, are on the cutting edge of preventing the seeds of hate and prejudice before they take root. During my tenure, I hope to increase awareness of ADL’s educational programs and increase the involvement of the community in all of its programs.” “Scott will be an incredible asset to the Florida region of the League as Chair,” stated Hava Holzhauer, ADL Florida Regional Director. “Not only is Scott a knowledgeable and enthusiastic ambassador for the League’s mission, he grew up in South Florida and has personal and business relationships all over the state. Scott is extremely dedicated to his work and to his relationships, and will bring this dedication to his role as Chair.” Simchas Lacie Judith Greenwald Lacie Judith Greenwald will become a bat mitzvah May 17 at Temple Beth Am in Jupiter. Lacie’s mitzvah project is working with Animals Last Hope. Through car washes and other projects, Lacie raises funds to help animals receive surgery and medical attention in order for them to be adoptable. Madison Krieger Madison Krieger will become a bat mitzvah May 24 at Temple Beth A m i n J u p i t e r. F o r her mitzvah project, Madison, in coordination with JAFCO, led a drive at the temple to provide children with Hanukah gifts. This drive helped provide the children in the JAFCO community with their Hanukah wishes. Through the response of the temple community, Madison collected more than 150 gifts for the JAFCO children. ALL BRANDS & MODELS of HEARING AIDS AVAILABLE and REPAIRED Practice in Palm Beach County over 20 years Today’s Most Advanced Technology at VERY AFFORDABLE PRICES! UNIQUE 2 YOU Weddings, (including interfaith) Bar/Bat Mitzvah training and ceremonies Call for information or to secure dates Cantor Bruce Benson 561.601.8294 Page 16, The Jewish Voice Community Calendar Temple Beth Am 2250 Central Blvd., Jupiter 747-1109, www.templebetham.com May 11-18 Family Promise Host Week (Family Promise helps temporarily homeless families with children) May 18, 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Temple Beth Am presents Palm Beach County Preschool Graduation Celebration. Free event and party for all graduating preschoolers May 30, 12 p.m. The One School Fresh Green Market and Bake Sale, with produce from Temple Beth Am community garden and fresh baked goodies June 4, 10 a.m. Shavuot and Yizkor Service Temple Beth David 4657 Hood Road, Palm Beach Gardens 694-2350, www.TempleBethDavidFL.org May 11 Happy Mother’s Day! May 16 Shabbat Jam. Honoring our teachers, at 6:30 p.m. Pizza dinner to follow, RSVP Required $6/pp May 18 Lag B’Omer & Youth Group at Rapids, RSVP required, at 12:30 p.m. May 30 Men’s Club Shabbat Service, at 6:30 p.m. June 1 Men’s Club & Federation Marlin’s Baseball, call for more information. June 4 Shavout Service at 9:15 a.m. & 7:30 p.m. Understanding Bordeaux Wines By Glenn Sudnick Arguably, Bordeaux, France may be the nucleus of the wine world. Yet, when I speak of this fascinating region many people tell me they are not familiar with these wonderful wines. There can be a perception that these wines are too complicated and more importantly very expensive to attain for everyday enjoyment. The region of Bordeaux has a geographical location that is perfect to create some of the most alluring wines of the world. The red wines are usually a blend of Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Cabernet Franc, Malbec, Petit Verdot and possibly some Carmènere. These grapes play a vital role, developing complex flavors. Each vintner decides what percentage of grapes to blend, to create his or her interpretation of a great wine. Bordeaux has some 306,000 acres and is the largest French wine appellation but second in volume next to the Languedoc. There is some evidence that wine production near the Garonne River in Bordeaux dates back to the 4th century. However, it was the Dutch in the 1600s who provided the framework for the eventual dominance that the Medoc wine region enjoys today by creating drainage channels making it suitable for growing grapes. In conversation, the wines can be described as left bank or right bank of the Gironde River which splits the region. The left bank has well drained gravelly soil and is suitable for the cultivation of Cabernet Sauvignon. The right bank soils are more suitable for the Merlot grape and are normally dominated by this variety. Left bank wines from Saint-Estephe, Pauillac, Saint-Julien and Margaux are structured, powerful, full bodied and meant to age in the bottle. Right bank wines from the regions of Pomerol and SaintEmilion are sensuous, with rich flavor and soft tannins. Whatever wine you choose, they pair well with braised, roasted or grilled meats from beef, pork and veal. I like these wines with Ahi Tuna and Salmon. Of course, they are a natural for soft and hard cheeses. The next time you visit a wine shop, ask the sommelier to recommend a Bordeaux wine for your thick grilled sirloin. Bordeaux, as in all wine growing regions of the world, rely on good weather conditions to develop great grapes, and both left bank and right bank wines have experienced great vintages in 2011 and 2012 and will be great to drink in the upcoming years. A little hint, if you can get your hands on a couple of bottles of the legendary 2000 vintage, make sure you share them with your best friend, or not! à vôtre santé, CROSSWORD PUZZLE Glenn Sudnick is a certified sommelier. Email him at [email protected]. CROSSWORD PUZZLE CROSSWORD PUZZLE June 5 Shavout Service at 9:15 a.m. & Yizkor at approx. 11a.m. Temple Israel 1901 N. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach 833.8421, www.temple-israel.com Rabbi Cookie Lea Olshein’s Spring Series on Prayer May 22, 7-8:15 p.m. “The Friday Night Service: Our Central Prayer, the Amidah” May 24, 10:45 a.m.-12 p.m. “The Friday Night Service: Concluding Prayers – Aleinu and Mourner’s Kaddish” No cost and open to all. The Spring Series on Prayer are stand-alone sessions intended to be both informative and practical and will be taught on a variety of levels for beginning and advanced students. Call 833-8421 to register. Temple Judea 4311 Hood Road, Palm Beach Gardens 624.4633, www.templejudeapbc.org May 16 7th Grade Graduation Service Solution on page 22 This is your business with no advertising .... May 18, 12 p.m. End of Year Annual Congregational Picnic at PGA National Park. Free BBQ. Sponsored by the Temple Judea Men’s Club May 19, 7 p.m. Annual Congregational Meeting: “Our Members Are Out Of This World.” Join us for a fabulous dessert buffet from around the world immediately following the meeting. ? See answer in this paper. The Jewish Voice, Page 17 Ask The Jeweler Mystical Emeralds Perfect for Sunny Summer By Jonathan Binder Arguably one of the most beautiful and radiant gemstones found on earth, emeralds have a long and mystical history. Found in abundance in only a small list of countries and in varying qualities, they can often be more valuable than diamond. Most emeralds have acceptable inclusions/imperfections well beyond that of a diamond. Those rare emeralds with little or no inclusions are extremely vibrant and, as such, quite valuable. Emeralds have been mined for thousands of years going back to the ancient Egyptian empire. Many cultures both ancient and modern have regarded the deep green color of emerald as mystical/spiritual. The ancient Egyptians thought of the emerald as representing eternal life. World cultures believed them to be associated with nature, luck, passion, and well-being. The most common modern origin of gem-quality emeralds is Columbia. It is said that up to 90 percent of the global marketplace for emeralds comes from the South American country. It is also argued that Columbian emeralds are the most pure, due to the type of rock from which they are mined. Jewelry made with fine emeralds is breathtaking and magnificent. Emerald jewelry is often made with green-tinted gold to enhance the color of the pieces, but looks stunning in platinum, white gold, and standard yellow gold. Because of the often surface-breaking imperfections, it is very difficult to cut, polish, and set gemstones for jewelry. Be aware that most jewelry manufacturers and retailers will not warranty your emerald against cracking. Also, most modern emeralds are now treated with oils to improve their durability Ask The Rabbi Managing Differing Levels of Observance Within the Family Question: My husband and I are always arguing over our level of observance as Jews. We both come from traditional homes and I want our family to be the same. My husband, on the other hand, will hear nothing of it. He won’t let me put the kids in a Jewish school or take the kids to shul and, when it comes the holidays, he makes jokes to the kids about the Jewish customs. I know this is the best thing for our family but I don’t want to break up the family in the process. What should I do? Answer: The problem you are having is a problem that most families face at some level or another. The Torah says, referring to the commandments, Vechai Bahem, And you shall live with them — i.e., you should live with them, and not die through them. From here we learn that a person is permitted to transgress the Shabbat in order to save a life because it’s better to transgress one Shabbat and keep many more Shabbats in the future. In your case, if you were to go all out against your husband, demand that he be more observant and not make fun of the holidays, etc., you would probably end up with less tradition, less observance, and a broken home. Sometimes a specific observance is just not right for your family right now. On the other hand, studies show that kids do better when they have a base in a religion and being more observant will in a very practical sense create a well-rounded wholesome family. One of my favorite memories as a child was sitting down together for the Shabbat meal enjoying the family’s company. And so is the case with all Jewish holidays. Our festivals all evoke excitement and splendor. Yom Kippur, Passover, Sukkot, and Rosh Hashanah all come wrapped in festive symbols that fire our kids’ imaginations. The shofar, the fast on Yom Kippur, the little huts we build on Sukkot. Matzah and the whole seder experience — they all constitute so much of the imagery we have inside our childhood memories. Hanukah and Purim aren’t short on symbols — dreidels and costumes are only two of many. It is these vivid symbols that stimulate our eager anticipation of beautiful and meaningful holiday celebrations today. If that is your goal you can still figure out fun and creative ways to introduce more Judaism in your family. Focus on your goal and get your husband to appreciate his Judaism! Rabbi Leib serves as youth director for Chabad House Lubavitch of Palm Beach and runs the Jewish School of the Arts kid’s program, 624.7004. The advice offered in this column is for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice. To ask the rabbi a question, email [email protected]. and enhance their color. In addition, many companies make synthetic green gemstones that have the vibrant color of emerald. Be sure to work with a jeweler you trust, especially if you would like to purchase a fine emerald. Emerald has been designated the birthstone of the month of May. I am proud to have been born under a birthstone of such prestige. Visit your local jeweler today and ask about adding a beautiful emerald jewelry piece to show off for the sunny summer. Jonathan Binder is store manager at Golden Anvil Jewelers in Jupiter. Email him at [email protected]. Is Your Financial Life too Complicated? By Roy Daniel Rosner In most families there is a natural division of household tasks and responsibilities. Because of this, as a Registered Investment Adviser and financial planner I rarely meet a married couple where both partners have the same degree of competence and understanding of the family’s finances. It is unusual to see a couple where both partners take a relatively equal role in financial planning, investment decisions, or making major financial commitments. It is common to see a great deal of discussion and agreement between a couple with regard to spending decisions, but almost always, I have observed, saving and investing decisions are typically done with much less discussion and coordination. This creates a very serious problem when the family investment leader predeceases the partner with less knowledge about investing in general, and the family finances in particular. In households where this potential problem is recognized, a couple will generally seek some help and guidance from financial professionals. It does not take very long for an adviser to size up the situation, and be quite confident as to which partner makes the investment decisions. As a result, the conversation often gets stilted to concentrate the dialog between the adviser and the decision maker, often involving heavy use of jargon, acronyms and financial terms that are almost meaningless to the other partner. When a couple first meets with a financial adviser they must make it very clear that they need to be treated as equals, and any idea, concept, or suggestion must be clearly explained so that each of the clients can understand it, without regard for how strong their own financial background currently is. A couple should never agree to take any action with their finances, unless both partners clearly understand the opportunity and risks associated with that suggestion and action. If, in fact, the investment knowledge of one of the partners is significantly less developed than that of the other, then a major objective of the planner and the clients should be to consolidate and simplify the family’s finances as much as possible, to make it feasible for the partner with less knowledge to safely and comfortably function alone. Over many years of saving and investing, many family portfolios become excessively diversified and overly complex. Most investors are much better at buying new investments than selling old ones. When new, seemingly good ideas come along, many investors are quick to try them. If they work out well, they are kept. If they work out poorly, most investors are reluctant to sell them, hoping that they may work out better in the future. Many investors operate with the misconception that you haven’t lost anything on a bad investment until you sell it! As a result, typical portfolios consist of a cacophony of different investment products, with many different accounts, with different managers and investment houses, and an overall structure that is difficult for an outsider to understand. If you are not currently the investment leader in your family, and need help from an adviser who can make sense and simplify the portfolio that your spouse has created, there is no time like the present. Besides making things much easier to understand, a good adviser will almost always produce better results than an ad hoc portfolio, created without an overall plan. If you would like to explore whether your family investment assets can be made more understandable, so that you can share the investment responsibilities with your spouse contact me at Futureproof Finances, LLC, at 561-232-3478. E-Mail: [email protected]. Visit us at: WWW. FUTUREPROOF-FINANCES.COM. Futureproof Finances LLC and its advisers are registered with the State of Florida and/or the SEC, but such registration does not imply or guarantee any specific level of skill or training. Page 18, The Jewish Voice Grandparents Day: An Opportunity to Explore, to Connect By Veronica Maravankin In mid-April, more than 200 jubilant grandparents and loved ones joined together for the first Grandparents Day at the Barbara & Jack Kay is in my family?, respect, distance (because many live far Early Childhood Learning away), l’dorvador (from generation to generation), legacy, Center. Our special guests age, holidays, places, relationships – connections, feeling celebrated Shabbat with our special, traditions, how we call them, stories. When the web school community and then was finalized, or at least we thought the main ideas had been visited the classrooms of their grandchildren for a festive snack. The day was much written, we looked at it and realized we had, in front of our anticipated, for both the grandchildren and the children. The eyes, a year worth of work. children eagerly showed their grandparents their classroom, After reading so many “meaningful words, we realized how their photos, their work; in essence, their home for many hours much richer it can be to explore any of the above-mentioned concepts, and how the gift, although important, should be just of the week. a condiment. The time with the children and in the classroom One of the would be best spent uncovering one or many of those words, as backbones of our they would give us meaningful opportunities to reflect, to think, educational philosophy to understand, to is, in simple words, find meaning, to “Don’t kill the process remember. for the product.” This is how Historically, the we choose teachers’ first thought to work with about planning for the children Grandparents Day at our school, was, “What are the regardless of the children going to make topic. to give them as a gift?” T h e Next followed a few f o l l o w i n g weeks of stressed week, one of teachers assuring the end result – the gift – was completed to perfection. In most of the cases, due to the sophistication of the project, final touches had to be done by the teacher’s hand. I challenged the teachers to think out of the box. The first thought I shared was: “If you are going to kill the process to get the product, then it is not worth it.” It is not the classrooms had about the gift, but about its walls covered the processes that with photos of its take place the weeks children with people leading to the day. And they love to depict with processes I mean, bonds, relationships; the conversations family trees were about grandparents, the put together. Many memories, the sharing teachers asked of photos, the many for photos of possibilities that open grandparents to be up when we think about sent a few weeks in grandparents. The gift advance so all the comes at the end, and children in the class would have the opportunity to get familiar it’s only worthwhile if there was a thought process behind it, an exploration, a with them. One of the teachers came up with the idea of connecting with those grandparents who were not going to dialogue, a memory to take away. We met, as usual, as a faculty with a big blank piece of be able to be in attendance via Skype. Although this idea, like paper, and in the middle the word “grandparent” was written. many others we had, didn’t come to fruition, it expanded our The question was: “When I think about grandparents I think vision of Grandparents Day. about…” And a web of ideas began to emerge. Words included: A seed was planted, and moving forward, the potential will family, family tree, heritage, visit, sequence of photos and the be far greater than the question: “What would be the gift the possibility they open to observe growth, shared journey, who children will make for their grandparents?” Did we have some stressed teachers the last few days, finishing gifts and assuring the class was at its best to be showcased? Of course we did! Because change has its stages and there is no shortcut; this is what a school that embarks on a journey of growth and excellence is about: reflection, questioning current practices and slowly, very slowly, changing them to more meaningful ones. We pride ourselves in providing children and families with the finest educational experiences. Veronica Maravankin is early childhood director at the Mandel JCC. Email her at [email protected]. The Parenting Place Is Your Toddler a Smartphone Expert? By Paula Deakter, M.Ed. In the last 10 years, technology for adults has changed dramatically. It has affected every aspect of our lives including our jobs, social life, and also how we raise our children. Even as adults, we can’t seem to find a way to balance how we use technology. Studies have shown that technology and the media culture are also an increasingly central part of children’s experiences and impact how they understand their world. Media culture influences how children behave and treat one another and shapes what they learn and what they want to learn. The more we understand how today’s media environment influences children’s development, behavior, relationships and ideas about the world, the better equipped we will be to build on the positive aspects of media culture in children’s lives and to counteract the negative ones. Not all media-exposure and technology are inherently negative or passive. Children use technology to write, create, learn, share information, problem solve and for enjoyment. Video-chatting with a grandparent who lives far away can be a meaningful way to keep in touch. We have to look at all aspects of technology and communication and make purposeful decisions on usage and balance especially for our youngest children. We all can see that the amount of screen usage among toddlers is rising even though the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no screen time for children under two years old and less than two hours for older children. Unfortunately, forty-one percent of children under age one watch TV every day and even three-month old infants are regular viewers of screen media (Zimmerman, Christakis and Meltzoff 2007). One study showed children ages two to four years old average more than two hours a day with screens and twenty-three percent of preschoolers have TVs in their bedrooms (Rideout 2011). Children’s use of screens has been connected to lower math and school achievement, reduced physical activity, sleep disturbances, shorter attention spans and higher levels of obesity. All About Kids on page 20 The Jewish Voice, Page 19 You’ve Arrived. $209 2014 BMW 320i Sedan MSRP $34,175 #L47589 SAVE TIME. 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The food and beverage industry spends two billion dollars annually to market to our children and eighty-one percent of the food ads are for candy, sugar-coated cereals, fast food, and soft drinks (Kaiser Family Foundation 2007). So how can we help children develop thoughtful and responsible technology usage and media viewing habits? Limit screen time. Decide on rules and routines for screen time and discuss these as a family. For example, no screen games on school days, or no more than one hour of screen time a day. Keep TVs, video game systems, smartphones, and computers in a shared family space, NOT in children’s bedrooms. Protect children from exposure to inappropriate media and interactions. Do not use electronic media to entertain or babysit your children. When they are outside of the home (in the car, restaurants, doctors’ offices, grocery stores) put away the smartphone. Use this as an opportunity to have conversations, sing songs, or to observe and explore the world together. Choose toys carefully. Does your preschooler really need a smartphone? Instead, select open-ended toys and play materials (e.g., art and recycled materials, blocks, dolls) that children can use in their own creative ways. Resist use of “scripted” toys that are linked to television and movies. Support children’s interests and skills beyond electronic media. Promote creative and imaginative play that children control, instead of play where children imitate what they see on the screen. Promote age-appropriate alternative activities to screen time, encourage children to play outside and make sure your children have opportunities for free, unscheduled time. Be good role models. If your toddler is already a smartphone expert, perhaps it’s time to reconsider your own habits. If you are always on your phone, your child will want to be just like you. Technology is here to stay and can be appropriate and helpful, but it is our responsibility to balance usage, teach boundaries, and promote our child’s safety and well-being. Te m p l e J u d e a ’ s Religious School is for any child who wants to experience Judaism in a u n i q u e w a y. Principal Gonen Arad breaks the model of traditional learning and offers an experiential program that invites children to learn and d i s c o v e r H e b r e w, traditions, culture, Israel, and much more in an informal and warm setting. water, chatted and laughed with friends, and filled themselves with snacks. But, to Director of Education David Sherman, this car wash was positively contributing to the sixth grade study of leadership and what it means to become a bar/bat mitzvah — elements of the Union of Reform Judaism CHAI Curriculum utilized by the entire Religious School. The sixth graders had a goal to earn money through this car wash to help defray the cost of their upcoming field trip to the Jewish Museum and Holocaust Memorial in Miami. In addition to raising $800, the students learned the importance of working toward a goal, teamwork, tzedakah, and helping their classmates. The Lesser family recently celebrated Josie’s bat mitzvah: Jennifer, Lillian, Josie, Gary, and Rebecca. Time to Kvell about Temple Beth Am Religious School Students The energy of young voices in prayer filled the sanctuary at Temple Beth Am in Jupiter. Parents and siblings, bubbies and zaidies, beamed as Temple Beth Am Religious School students helped lead a special Friday night Shabbat Service. This perfectly fits Temple Beth Am’s stated mission, “Making Judaism accessible … so future generations can kvell about their Jewish grandchildren.” Temple Beth Am Religious School encourages students to feel confident and proud of their Judaism. One of the ways this is done is by teaching students Shabbat songs and prayers, and inviting them to actively participate in the service. In keeping with the spirit of kulanu (all of us together), Temple Beth Am also hosts Shabbat dinners before these special services, in which Religious School families experience the joy of Shabbat and bond with other members of the school. Paula Deakter, M.Ed., is Early Childhood Director of The One School at Temple Beth Am, Jupiter. Visit TheOneSchoolJupiter.com or email TheOneSchool@ templebetham.com. JUiCY Spring Kallah Student Car Wash at Temple Beth Am was a Mitzvah Project Last month 18 JUiCYites joined 400 other teens from more than 10 youth groups and attended the NFTY-STR Spring Kallah. Throughout the weekend teens experienced teen-led Shabbat services and programs and learned about themselves and the Jewish community through different hands-on activities and group discussions. It was a special weekend for JUiCY for two reasons: It was the last kallah for graduating seniors, and our very own Samantha Kitroser was inducted as the new Programming V.P. for NFTY-STR regional board. It was truly a weekend to remember! To the untrained eye, the car wash held by the students of Temple Beth Am’s sixth grade Religious School class looked like a typical car wash. Tweens sloshed cars with soapy Temple Beth Am Religious School students lead prayers from the bimah. Temple Beth Am sixth graders wash cars to raise funds for their field trip to Jewish Museum in Miami. Car wash at Temple Beth Am builds teamwork. Temple Beth Am families light Friday night Shabbat candles at dinner prior to student-led Shabbat Service. The Jewish Voice, Page 21 Health, Fitness & Food Hearing Loss Whose Responsibility Is It? By Murray Steinfeld A major survey of adults 50 and older, released in December 2011, a joint project of AARP and the American Speech-Language Hearing Association, revealed that hearing loss is much more than a medical issue. Based on a survey of 2,200 American seniors, the survey underscored the apathy, but also put into sharp focus the challenge to overcome what we in the hearing healthcare profession deal with regularly: that people, especially in the 50+ age category, say they are very aware of the importance of good hearing, yet they admit they are negligent in seeking treatment for their hearing concerns. They openly admit their hearing loss does interfere with their ability to maintain the personal connections so crucial to their good mental health, personal, business, and professional relationships as they go through the aging process in their senior years. More than 80 percent of the respondents to the survey said they recognize that hearing health is very or extremely important to them, and about half reported having concerns but allow them to remain untreated. About one-third of the respondents admitted their hearing was poor but still try to convince everyone around them that treating their hearing inadequacies is unnecessary. They would rather place their inability to hear others and the sounds around them as a burden to everyone else with whom they maintain contact. That’s unfair! Nicole Duritz, Vice President for Health and Family at AARP, stated that seniors commonly believe hearing loss is an inconvenience but not a life-and-death issue. It does have a significant impact on life, she said, causing stress and a loss of social interaction. When people start withdrawing from social situations, it can and often lead to depression. Interestingly, the respondents to the survey noted the following: a) only 43% had undergone a hearing test in the past five years b) 85% had blood pressure monitored c) 81% had cholesterol screenings d) 88% had vision tests. e) Mammograms and prostate exams also were done by a significant percentage of the respondents. So where is all this leading? I do believe that hearing loss is not given the priority it truly deserves. Why? 1) Hearing loss develops gradually 2) Hearing loss has no physical pain (which could be the greatest pain of all) 3) Hearing loss is a slow and insidious process 4) Families tend to compensate for a loved one’s poor hearing, taking over the conversation, scheduling their appointments, and essentially doing the talking and thinking for the hearing-impaired family member. Then what is the answer? Families must come to realize they have to stop doing that, because the impaired person will never take any action for themselves. The hearing-impaired family member will stop trying to deal with their own problems and concerns and never consider taking action to confront their own problems and concerns; after all, there is no incentive to get help because everyone else is doing the hearing for them. So, what’s happening in your family? Murray Steinfeld is an audioprosthologist at Hearing Solutions of the Palm Beaches in Jupiter. Email him at [email protected]. FUELING THE FUTURE WITH RENEWABLE ENERGIES What Is A Cataract? Imagine an energy-independent Israel, a secure nation no longer reliant on the fossil fuels of hostile neighbors. Imagine a “green” fuel that could revolutionize the jet plane industry within five to 10 years, and a breakthrough in solar storage technology that could power a country even at night. Imagine a new, stronger energy efficient Israel-U.S. alliance. This is the future that scientists at Ben-Gurion University of the Negev imagine every day. And every day they get closer to turning their vision into reality. LEARN MORE: www.aabgu.org 561-705-0117 • [email protected] Where the impossible becomes possible… By Dr. Monroe Benaim A cataract is the clouding of the eye’s natural crystalline lens. The lens assists with focusing light rays on to the retina, which translates the image to the brain. After the lens starts to cloud, it is impossible to return the lens to its clear state with medications, and cataract surgery will be required. Some people think a cataract is a growth on the outside of the eye, but a cataract is actually the gradual clouding occurring with the lens located inside your eye, just behind the pupil. Various factors may increase the onset of a cataract, but it is said that if we live long enough, everyone will develop a cataract sooner or later. UV radiation and cigarette smoking have been listed as potentially likely to increase the development of a cataract. Many people may suffer from cataracts for a long period of time without realizing they are experiencing symptoms. Most cataract patients complain about a dullness of colors and night driving problems. Cataracts will gradually limit a person’s ability to do a simple task like reading a paper or seeing road signs. About 50 percent of people over the age of 60 suffer from cataracts. Cataract surgery which includes a lens implant being inserted to restore the optics of the eye, is one of the most common medical procedures performed in the United States today, with over 3 million performed each year according to the American Academy of Ophthalmology. The surgery is typically an outpatient procedure lasting about 10-15 minutes and most activities and work are resumed the day after surgery. When cataract with implant surgery was first done there were only mono-focal lens implants for insertion after the surgery and patients saw distance needing reading glasses. This meant that after cataract surgery patients would still require glasses after surgery. With the advent of high technology implants or premium lens implants, our practice now has the ability to make glasses unnecessary after cataract surgery. This is accomplished using premium lens implants such as multifocal or accommodating lens implants (Trulign, Crystalens, ReStor, Technis, etc.). Dr. Benaim can help you select a lens that is appropriate for your visual situation. For further questions about cataracts or to make an appointment to have your eyes examined with Dr. Benaim, please call (561) 747-7777 for Palm Beach County or (772) 777-2210 for Martin and St. Lucie County. Health, Fitness & Food on page 22 AABGU Ads'14_AltEnergy_FL.indd 1 3/31/14 7:18 PM Page 22, The Jewish Voice Health, Fitness & Food from page 21 Ask Dr. G. … Why Is Your Hospice’s Slogan “Live Every Day to the Fullest”? Submitted by a Reader People sometimes ask me if hospice care is depressing. In fact, it’s quite the opposite: I am so honored to witness lives that have truly come alive. As a physician at Hospice of Palm Beach County and Broward County, I am amazed by the fearlessness of our patients, as they live and embrace each day. It’s something we all could learn, no matter where we are in life. When patients and families come to us, they are often managing multiple appointments with multiple specialists. The last things on their mind are smelling the roses or sand between their toes. Hospice care lifts some of the stress so families can refocus on each other. I had a patient who was homebound and wanted to take a trip with his son to Disney World. We taught him how to administer his medication and contacted a hospice in Orlando in case he needed help. The logistics, however, aren’t what made this trip possible. The chance to have a hospice team behind him made him the “pilot,” where he could imagine new possibilities. I had another patient who was near death, but wanted to drink a beer and watch a baseball game. Our doctors and nurses were able to adjust his medication so his body could handle the excitement. He was able to enjoy that time with friends and family, one of life’s simple pleasures. What would you do if you knew you had six months to live? I believe there are two options: you can either succumb to fear, doing everything possible to delay it, or you can focus on living each day to the fullest. The latter is much easier said than done. When you’re faced with a serious illness you forget about the life that happens between appointments. The biggest lesson my patients have taught me is to make every day special. The ultimate example is the patient in an assisted living facility who had cancer. When she was admitted into hospice care, she decided to have a party celebrating her life. She asked all of her friends and family to come and share the wonderful things they had to say about her, reminisce about the good times and plan more time to share their love. “Hospice” is simply this: a team of professionals who help patients determine their own care and experiences. We have doctors and nurses who help alleviate the pain and symptoms our patients face. Integrative therapists provide massage, music and aromatherapy to ease the discomfort as well. Social workers come in and help patients with whatever they want to resolve before they pass. Volunteers provide respite for caregivers. Our goal is to lift the burden off of families so that they can turn their attention to living and loving. Many days I think to myself, “I couldn’t ask for a better teacher than the patients I serve.” Hopefully their journeys will serve to inspire your story as well. Faustino Gonzalez, MD, FACP, FAAHPM, Vice President of Medical Affairs, Hospice of Palm Beach County. Have a question for Dr. G? E-mail [email protected] with the subject line “Ask Dr. G,” your question could be answered in his next column! Answer for Crossword Puzzle Summer at Abacoa Golf Club – Public Golf at its Finest! Twenty-five Pints Collected at Temple Beth Am Blood Drive Well, it’s almost summer and the snowbirds are slowly packing up and heading back north. So, you might ask, what does that mean for the rest of us who live in South Florida year round? Well, it means that now is the time to relax and appreciate all the beautiful things that we are fortunate enough to enjoy all year long — and without the crowds! If you haven’t been to Abacoa Golf Club lately, now is the time to come and check us out. We’ve made substantial upgrades to the course including renovating the lake banks, landscaping and cart paths. We’ve also upgraded the driving range with new sod and added new JR and SR Tees. Abacoa is truly a great place to play the game When Stuart Fierman approached Temple Beth Am about organizing a blood drive, who knew it would become an annual event, collecting hundreds of pints of blood over the years? Stuart is an active member of Temple Beth Am and for 20 years has been a donor Temple Beth Am Blood Drive of blood and platelets. Coordinator Stuart Fierman Temple Beth Am is grateful for Stuart’s dedication and for facilitating this important mitzvah. Blood Drive at Temple Beth Am in Jupiter Tips to Get Fit this Summer of golf! With summer quickly approaching, that means lower rates, and Abacoa Golf Club with its top-rated tif eagle greens and beautiful scenery can’t be matched! In the month of May, our rates range from $35 to $65 and from June through October 15, the rates range from just $30 to $55. If you play a couple of times a week, you’ll want to check out our summer memberships where you can play any day, all season long for as little as $1150 including the cart! Have you ever wanted to learn to play golf, but didn’t know how to get started? Abacoa Golf Club has excellent instructors who can teach all levels of players from the basic beginner to the very advanced player. If you have a JR player interested in the game, we also have an excellent JR Program and accredited teachers to take your child to the next level. If a little healthy competition is your thing, be sure to check out about our Summer Golf Leagues and weekly skins game. Ladies, we also have a program just for you! Chip-N-Sip at Abacoa is a fun way for women of all abilities to play golf and socialize with other women. We meet every Wednesday and either practice on the driving range or play 9 holes. After golf, we meet up in the clubhouse for drinks and appetizers. We also offers group lessons in a Women’s Development Program which includes 4 levels of Instruction from Beginner to Expert. After each lesson, you will come into the clubhouse to “sip” and review the clinic. The golf course is not the only thing to check out at Abacoa! Lunch is served daily from 11 until 3 in our Grille Room. Whether you dine inside in the cool air or outside on our inviting patio, you’ll love the view overlooking the lake on the 18th green. We also serve Happy Hour from 3 till close with 2-for-1 drinks and lite fare menu. Be sure to come visit Abacoa Golf Course this summer — a public golf course with a private club experience! Everybody wants to be in shape for bathing suit season, but all those fun seasonal activities — from barbecues to vacations to baseball games — can derail a diet. Here are some tips to help you get fit, so you can look and feel your best all summer: Vacations It’s tempting to leave healthy habits behind when heading out of town. But an off week can permanently wreck your diet. When possible, opt for active vacations, such as camping trips or touring a city by foot. If you’re planning a more sedentary getaway, stay somewhere with a fitness facility. Vacations can be rare, so don’t sacrifice all the treats of the trip. Prioritize meal-time indulgences so you can enjoy yourself mindfully. For travel days, pack healthful snacks such as fresh fruit, nuts, and yogurt as alternatives to high-calorie airport or roadside food. Daily Diet It’s important to assess whether you’re eating the foods you need to get fit versus foods that merely encourage weight loss, say experts. “Unfortunately, many fad diets can leave you feeling fatigued, sluggish, or undernourished,” says Andrew Eckhardt, Owner and Founder of ThinSlim Foods and a veteran diet food consumer. To eat right, don’t starve yourself. Stock up on fruits and vegetables, low-fat dairy, and lean meats. And just because you’re slimming down or maintaining your already svelte figure, doesn’t mean you need to sacrifice your favorite foods or go carb-free. “Alternative foods can allow you to enjoy favorite options without expending your calorie budget in one meal,” says Eckhardt. Try replacing standard cake or wheat flours with healthy alternatives, like oat fiber and almond fiber. In one shot, you’ll cut calories and increase your protein and fiber intake. If regular baking is unrealistic, look for brands that replace low-quality inexpensive flours and sugar substitutes with good-for-you alternatives. These low-fat and low-carb foods eliminate artificial flavors, preservatives, high-fructose corn, syrup and synthetic colors. Exercise Summer is a great opportunity to start a fitness regimen that you can stick with all year. You should strive to get at least twoand-a-half hours a week of moderate-intensity aerobic physical activity, preferably spread throughout the week, according to the Department of Health and Human Services. Additionally, you should incorporate muscle-strengthening activities into your regimen to stay strong and improve your metabolism. A workout buddy can help you stay motivated. Wherever summer takes you, you can look and feel great, while enjoying all your favorite foods and activities. Source: StatePoint Photo credit: (c) Majesticca - Fotolia.com Business Seligman Brand Strategies Adds Two New Clients Seligman Brand Strategies (SBS), a public relations, marketing, and digital media firm headquartered in Palm Beach Gardens, recently added The City of West Palm Beach and Jupiter Medical Center to its client roster. The City of West Palm Beach has retained SBS through 2016 to manage the public relations of its Community Events Division, as well as the overall social media strategy for the city. Jupiter Medical Center has also retained SBS to focus on strategic media outreach to highlight a myriad of new procedures and services, current construction, and community programming. For more information, visit sbrandstrategies.com or call 630.7739. The Jewish Voice, Page 23 Page 24, The Jewish Voice Sowing the seeds of tomorrow, today. Reimagining | Renovating | Reenergizing That’s the goal of Tomorrow Today: A Community Partnership Project. Become a permanent part of the landscape of Jewish Palm Beach and create a vibrant, dynamic Jewish future for generations to come. Call 561.242.6665, email [email protected] or visit jewishpalmbeach.org/ttc for more information. Arthur I. Meyer Jewish Academy
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