A SHORT GUIDE FOR USING VOUS AND TU

A Short Guide for using Vous and Tu
Are you an
adult?
yes
Are you
speaking to a
child?
no
Is the child
like a prince or
something?
yes
no
no
Are you
speaking to an
adult?
Tu
yes
yes
vous
Is the
adult a family
member?
no
Tu
no
vous
yes
Tu
You are
speaking to . . .
Someone you
don’t formally
know
A friend
or lover
Your
father-in-law
Your
spouse
Your
boss
Your
teacher
Best to
Tu
Ask
Believe it or not
Tu
yes
God?
Is your
teacher young enough
to be your daughter
or son?
Is your spouse
former president
Jacques Chirac?
no
vous
yes
Is this someone
considerably older (say,
a half generation or
more) than you?
no
Tu
yes
vous
Do you work at
a company like Le Google
where no one wears
neckties and everyone
is “tu”?
no
no
This is a “vous”
situation. Except . . . did
your boss just really piss
you off, and you want
him to know it?
yes
Swear
to God
Come on,
really?
Tu
no
vous
yes
Tu
yes
Tu
yes
Tu
no
Did you participate
in the French May 1968 riots
demanding government reform
and free love?
Tu
yes
Were you at
Woodstock?
yes
no
OK, maybe
not
no
vous
Do you consider this
person a peer, that is, a fellow
student, the coworker in the next cubicle,
an Internet chat room acquaintance, or
someone you met in a bar last
night and just woke up
next to?
not sure
Do you feel
lucky? Well, do
you, punk?
no
vous
no
yes
A lg o n q u i n
Tu
vous
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