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o u t o f a g e n e r a l co n ce r n fo r th e sa fe ty o f o th e r s. Jo n n y is b e in g ca lle d o u t
p u b licly fo r a ve r y sca r y p a tte r n o f r a p e a n d a ssa u lt, r e fu sin g to d isclo se th e ir
h e r p e s sta tu s b e fo r e se xu a l co n ta ct, a n d r e fu sin g to u se sa fe r se x p r a ctice s.
Ad d itio n a lly, so m e fe e l th a t Jo n n y u se s e m o tio n a lly vu ln e r a b le m o m e n ts b e twe e n
fr ie n d s co m b in e d with a lco h o l to e n a b le th e ir ca p a city fo r a ssa u lt.
Wh ile p u b licly Jo n n y h a s m a d e a n a tte m p t to h o ld th e m se lve s a cco u n ta b le b y
q u ittin g d r in kin g , su r vivo r s b e lie ve th a t Jo n n y d o e s n o t g e t to d e cid e wh a t
a cco u n ta b ility lo o ks like o r wh e n th e y h a ve co m p le te d it. Qu ittin g d r in kin g is a
ste p , b u t it sh o u ld b e e m p h a size d th a t th is is a lo n g sta n d in g p a tte r n o f b e h a vio r ,
a n d m a n y b e lie ve th a t a lco h o l wa s th e cr u tch n e e d e d to ju stify a ssa u lt. In a
r e ce n t d isclo su r e sta te m e n t r e le a se d to fr ie n d s, Jo n n y n e ve r sa ys “ I r a p e d ,” o r “ I
ch o se to a ssa u lt” p e o p le , b u t r a th e r le a ve s r e sp o n sib ility with th e a lco h o l: p e o p le
we r e d r in kin g a n d su d d e n ly e ve r yo n e ’s clo th e s we r e o ff a n d th e y b e lie ve d ce r ta in
a ctio n s we r e co n se n su a l with o u t g e ttin g ve r b a l o r a n y o th e r kin d o f co n se n t. T h is
is n o t d u e to a lco h o l a b u se , th is is d u e to e n title m e n t.
T h is ca ll o u t d o e s n o t p e r ta in to a n iso la te d in cid e n t, b u t m a n y o ve r a sp a n o f
ye a r s. Jo n n y le ft Po r tla n d a p p r o xim a te ly 4 ye a r s a g o a fte r a ca ll o u t, a n d a s m o r e
in fo r m a tio n is p r o ce sse d b e twe e n fr ie n d s, we a r e still d isco ve r in g o th e r su r vivo r s
sp e a kin g o u t a b o u t a b u se th e y e n d u r e d .
Su r vivo r s b e lie ve th a t Jo n n y u se s fe m in ist r h e to r ic to m a n ip u la te o th e r s a n d
a b so lve th e m se lve s o f th e h a r m th e y p e r p e tu a te . Jo n n y h a s a h isto r y o f u sin g
th is a s a we a p o n , m in im izin g th e ir b e h a vio r , tr a n sfe r r in g b la m e o n to su r vivo r s,
a n d su g g e stin g th a t th e se h a ve b e e n h u m a n e r r o r s, a s if to su g g e st th a t r a p e is a
n a tu r a l h u m a n e r r o r a n d n o t ta n g le d in a co m p lica te d we b o f p a tr ia r ch y. T h e y
a lso lie o r e xa g g e r a te th e tr u th to victim ize th e m se lve s in o r d e r to m a n ip u la te
o th e r s in to fe e lin g so r r y fo r th e m .
Su r vivo r s b e h in d th is sta te m e n t d o n o t b e lie ve Jo n n y is a u th e n tica lly a p o lo g e tic
o ve r r e p e a te d a b u se s, b u t r a th e r th a t th e y a r e so r r y th a t th e ir p u b lic im a g e m a y
b e ta r n ish e d . T h is is in p a r t d u e to Jo n n y’s a tte m p ts a t d a m a g e co n tr o l th a t h a ve
b a ckfir e d . T h a t sa id , su r vivo r s a r e n o t in te r e ste d in a n a cco u n ta b ility p r o ce ss o r
a n o th e r n o n a p o lo g y, b u t d o h a ve sim p le d e m a n d s: Jo n n y is to le a ve sh a r e d
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th e ir p r e se n ce , in clu d in g fo r ce , will b e ta ke n . Jo n n y will n o t a p p r o a ch su r vivo r s in
p e r so n , o n th e in te r n e t, o r via te xt to d e b a te th e ir h isto r y o f r a p e a n d a b u se , a n d
will a b so lu te ly n o t se e k to a b so lve th e m se lve s o f g u ilt a t th e b e h e st o f su r vivo r s.
Jo n n y m a y u se a n u m b e r o f fr e e a n d ch e a p p u b lic se r vice s in clu d in g th e
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m o te l - c h r o n i c l e r l i k e s th i s
fu n g i fl o w e r l i k e s th i s
n e e l y th e r e s e r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m b i tc h a u r a
s p e c tr e - o m l i k e s th i s
th e - a u to p h a g i s t r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m c a s h m e n s c h
d a v i d - b o w i e s - b u tt r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m th e l o n e l y w i tc h
s h a n e x c o r e l i k e s th i s
c a s h m e n s c h r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m tr a n s - k a fk a
d o o m g a z e p r i n c e s s r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m tr a n s - k a fk a
tr a n s - k a fk a r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m fr i e n d l y b u k k a k e a n d a d d e d :
t hi s guy i s a f uc k i ng c reep. boos t .
e l l i o tt- r l i k e s th i s
b l o o d a n d c r u s t r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m x x q u e e r x e d g e x x a n d a d d e d :
A l s o been i n S eat t l e rec ent l y hi t t i ng up s urv i v ors and at t endi ng s hows f uc k al l t hat
noi s e.
x x q u e e r x e d g e x x r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m b i tc h a u r a a n d a d d e d :
T hank s f or s hari ng t hi s i nf orm at i on. What a f uc k i ng di rt bag.
x x q u e e r x e d g e x x l i k e s th i s
fl o r a l x fl e s h l i k e s th i s
g i r l - g r i s tl e r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m b i tc h a u r a
g i r l - g r i s tl e l i k e s th i s
r e m u s l u m p e n l i k e s th i s
p r e tty o fc e n te r l i k e s th i s
b b y b 0 n e s l i k e s th i s
3 n 7 r 3 p l 4 n 3 7 4 2 r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m b i tc h a u r a
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b i tc h a u r a r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m x x q u e e r x e d g e x x a n d a d d e d :
I was part of an i ni t i al c rew of f ol k s c al l i ng t hi s dude out . T hey are of t he wors t
s c um and af t er a bunc h of peopl e i n. . .
b r e a k - m y - fa c e l i k e s th i s
l e tth e tr i b e i n c r e a s e r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m c i r i th - - u n g o l a n d a d d e d :
c i ri t h—ungol : T hank f ul l y j ohnny not hi ng’ s no l onger l i v es i n S eat t l e
c i r i th - - u n g o l r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m h e l l b e n tfo r h e a th e r a n d a d d e d :
s o t hi s gonna be RE A L pers onal B UT i l os t m y v i rgi ni t y t o t hi s pers on when i was
15. I was rec ent l y t ol d by a m ut ual . . .
c i r i th - - u n g o l l i k e s th i s
h e l l b e n tfo r h e a th e r r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m x x q u e e r x e d g e x x a n d a d d e d :
Gos h t hi s i s t ri ppy , I went t o t hi s k i d’ s weddi ng l i k e 7 y ears ago.
b l a z e r r a z o r r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
s e a fo a m - p e a r l r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
h e a d a c h e h o n e y r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
a w h i s p e r to th e th u n d e r r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
fa th o m i n i d r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
fa th o m i n i d l i k e s th i s
m y k i n k y s e x s e c r e ts r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m w i tc h b o y 6 6 6 9
m r e l i s h a 2 6 r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m w i tc h b o y 6 6 6 9
w i tc h b o y 6 6 6 9 r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m x x q u e e r x e d g e x x
s l u d g e p u s s y r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
fv n e s h r v n e 2 0 1 4 l i k e s th i s
w i tc h b o y 6 6 6 9 l i k e s th i s
th e e c a tn a p p e r r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l a n d a d d e d :
[ T ri gger warni ng: s ex ual as s aul t , rape, abus i v e behav i or] I hav e heard t hrough t he
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grape v i ne t hi s pers on m ay be m ov i ng. . .
th i s i s m y m o o n l i k e s th i s
th i s i s m y m o o n r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
i w a n ta v e l v e td r e s s r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m g o o d c h a r l o tte o ffi c i a l
tu ffg h o s t6 6 6 l i k e s th i s
m a d c a p c a t l i k e s th i s
s e x n e g a ti v e l i k e s th i s
u l l i e c o c o l i k e s th i s
v m y r s n h m l i k e s th i s
d a n i p h a n to m g o n e r e b l o g g e d th i s fr o m r e m u s l u m p e n
d a n c e i n to m o r d o r l i k e s th i s
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Rob Flippin Swift · · Game Warden at Raptor Trainer
wow you idiots are fucking sheeple my man jonny has an will never do anything of this nature,
before you idiots call someone out an publicly shame them get the facts straight, is what
happened bad absolutely but to do this without seeing or hearing both sides of the story is
fucked I call bullshit if it were true why hasn't the "victim" made an affidavit stating her case or is it
too inconsistent an a little convenient, or can you morons chalk it up to bad decisions whilest
drunk, all I'm saying is check your sources beforehand or else you make yourselves look like an
asshole, I've left my wife an other women with him whilst we were getting wasted an nothing
happened to them or is this an exgirlfriend thing hmmmm seems a bit suspect..........
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