Douglas L. Coleman: Vanished But Not Gone A Celebration of Life Presented by Tom Coleman Sunday, August 3, 2014, 3-5 p.m. The Jackson Laboratory Introduction Good afternoon, I am the youngest son of Douglas and Beverly Coleman. I am also pleased to be the husband of Sarah Fashena. Together Sarah and I are the proud parents of the only grandchild, Benjamin John Coleman. As I considered what to say at today’s celebration of Dad’s life, I came to realize that I viewed it nearly equally as a celebration of Mom’s and Dad’s lives. As many of you know, this pair was incredibly close, having lived together for over five decades. In Dad’s words, they were “attached at the hip.” Indeed, they were so close that I did not get to know Dad until Mom began experiencing executive function issues and ultimately died of Alzheimer’s disease in 2009. I am happy to say that during this time, following Mom’s decline and death, Dad and I became quite close. In fact, for the past two years I spoke with Dad every day until his death and we spoke about everything. One of the topics was whether or not there should be a memorial service. Dad was firmly against having a memorial, and I was equally firm in my belief that we must have one. I told him that, ironically, the service was not for him. Around this time, and independent of my desires, representatives from The Jackson Laboratory offered this space for a celebration of life, and this idea tipped the balance. Dad agreed that a service here at The Jackson Laboratory felt correct. I would like to thank President Ed Liu and the many who worked behind the scenes to make this possible—it feels right to me as well. Death with dignity I would like to start at the end, as I feel that Dad died with great dignity. He was in significant pain since the fall. He complained but never what you might expect. He was existing in that horrible phase of life that Samuel Beckett so shockingly and accurately describes as where “the boredom of living is replaced by the suffering of being.” He wanted to die and I think that it is important that you know that he wanted to die. His body had fallen apart but his mind remained sharp. Yet, throughout this phase, I admire the fact that he continued to work out three days a week at the Laboratory until he could no longer drive. I admire that fact that he gracefully gave up driving when he feared that he might be a danger to others. I admire the fact that he heated the house with wood through the long winter. I admire the fact that he took up travel after Mom died – it took several years and a lot of courage but not only did he travel but he went to some unusual destinations: Tierra del Fuego and Antarctica, and Africa, where he zip-lined over Victoria Falls. I admire the fact that he baked bread weekly and proudly took this bread with him as a housewarming gift when he was asked to dinner. And I especially admire the fact that he applied humor to his deteriorating condition. I would like to relay two humorous stories that capture this spirit. As many of you know, Dad had significant surgery to his face and his “good” eye ultimately fused shut. One morning he fell; his ear was essentially necrotic and a large chunk of his earlobe fell off. During the transition to blindness, before the eye fused shut, he saw double for a period of time. One day I asked him how that was going and he replied, “Oh, it’s not so bad—I find that I now have twice the number of friends that I use to.” While growing up I never thought of my father as an optimistic person, but I truly feel that as his body fell apart around him, with each further insult, he appreciated what remained even more. So how do we celebrate my parents’ lives? What is their legacy? In considering this question I am reminded of a quote from William Faulkner, who in a short story had four insightful words to encapsulate the aftereffects of death. Faulkner said that the deceased were “vanished but not gone.” I will use these words as the theme for the remainder of my talk. How are my parents vanished but not gone? I would like to answer this question by focusing on three topics: There was blood everywhere; I ultimately tracked him down when he had returned from the emergency room. Once I had heard the story, I said, “Boy, you have had an exciting morning! How is it going?” He replied, “What with my fused eye, I use to be a pretty good pirate, but I find that I now have no place to put my earring.” The thought of my father even wearing an earring is pretty humorous but where he came up with this quote under these circumstances is beyond me. 1. The scientific discovery that obesity is not just a behavioral problem. I am a scientist and I happen to think that Dad performed some pretty elegant experiments and I suspect that many of you may not know about this work. 2. Several charities that Dad and Mom worked on together and later some he founded to commemorate himself and Mom. 3. The offspring. Scientific discovery Here at The Jackson Laboratory, Dad became fascinated with several obese strains of mice. I am going to illustrate these mice with balloons. If a normal mouse is about this size (holding up balloon), the Obese or ob mouse is two or three times as large (holding up balloon). A second mutant, db for diabetic, was also two or three times the size of a normal, wild-type (wt) mouse, essentially indistinguishable from the ob mouse (holding up balloon). From some early crosses, Dad had a suspicion that these two mutations, though present on separate chromosomes, functioned in a common pathway. ob db wt Dad wondered whether some circulating factor might control the obesity. If such a hypothetical factor was present in the blood, he reasoned that he could test for its presence by linking the blood supplies of the animals. One such means to link blood supplies involves surgically joining the mice, essentially making a Siamese twin – a technique termed parabiosis. I remember seeing these mice as a young boy when I would come to the laboratory with Dad on the weekends, and frankly I was horrified but as Dad correctly pointed out, mice wt wt ob db db wt wt wt ob 1) The wt-wt pair displays no problem, each mouse in the pair remains active and healthy throughout experiment; this is the so-called negative control. wt 2) In the ob-wt pair, the ob loses weight but survives for duration of experiment. So what does this tell us? It suggests that there is, in fact, a blood-borne factor, which Dad called a satiety factor, and this factor can allow the obese mouse to lose weight. Therefore, the downstream machinery is present in obese mice. It is as if the ob mouse was simply lacking the satiety factor. wt ob 3) Things get really fascinating with the db-wt pair. Unlike the obese mouse, the diabetic mouse continues eating and gaining weight. In contrast, the normal mouse loses weight and ultimately dies. When Dad did an autopsy on the normal mouse he discovered that it had no food in stomach, no food remnants in intestine and no fat stores. It is as if the diabetic mouse produced a blood-borne factor so powerful that it could cause the normal mouse to starve. wt db db tend to stay close together and these twins appeared to be active and happily doing whatever mice do. So what happens when you join two mice together? I will walk you through four pairings. ob Taken together, the parabiosis experiments clearly indicated that the ob mutant could respond to, but could not produce, a blood-borne satiety factor, while the db mutant overproduced a bloodborne satiety factor, but could not respond to it – 4) Finally, in the db-ob pair, the db keeps eating and gaining weight but the ob loses weight and ultimately starves to death. perhaps owing to a lack of the necessary receptor. These experiments were published in a series of experiments in the late 1960s and early ‘70s, but they were largely dismissed at the time because they disagreed with the dogma of the day. The leading thinking of the day was that mice (or people) are overweight because they overeat (behavior) not because of a genetic predisposition (physiology). This was the way things stood until 1994, when Jeff Freidman and colleagues at Rockefeller University cloned the ob mutant and discovered that it encoded a hormone that he named leptin. As of last week, over 26,000 publications contain leptin as a key word. Essentially every prediction that Dad made proved correct: the obese mice lack functional leptin and the diabetic mice lack a functional leptin receptor and, therefore, overproduce leptin in a vain attempt to compensate. In recognition of this work, Dad and Jeff went on to win many of the prizes that you see on that table. You may wonder what role Mom played in Dad’s discovery. Indeed, it is possible that Dad may have done these experiments had he never met Mom. But I happen to believe that behind many creative people, an underappreciated support staff frequently exists. Mom was that staff. She was the one who provided the uniform and rigid home life that Dad demanded. It was largely Mom who ran the household and kept the books; it was largely Mom who raised the three boys; and it was largely Mom who nursed the middle son, John, during his seven-year struggle with cancer. Significantly, John died at age 11 in 1971, precisely when this obesity work was ongoing. I believe that Mom played a huge role in this work. But you do not need to take my word. Let me tell it to you in Dad’s words. Several books recap the discovery of leptin and Dad gave Benjamin and me one of these in 2001. Benjamin will not remember this since he was only three years old at the time. But let me read you from the inscription: “Dear Tom and Benjamin, If when you read this you feel that I have made some contribution, know that it was only because of the unstinting support of many, most importantly your mother and grandmother Bev. Love, Dad and Grandpa Doug.” Dad will go down in history as one of the pioneers in the discovery that genetics can play a significant role in obesity. Returning to Faulkner’s words, I think this is a good demonstration of how he may be “vanished but not gone”. Charities When Dad turned 60, he looked at his retirement account and realized that Mom and he could enter a comfortable retirement. He made a clean break from science, and they traveled around the globe: Galapagos Islands, Mayan ruins, bicycling in Provence, celebrating their 40th anniversary on Machu Picchu. But Mom and Dad always like a purpose in life, and they became advocates for land preservation. In part due to their volunteer work at various conservancy and forestry nonprofits, literally thousands of acres of Maine coastline and wetlands have been preserved. Later in life with these scientific prizes, Dad received considerable monetary awards. He decided to donate essentially all of this prize money to various charities. When he informed me of this design I remember, with tongue firmly in cheek, reminding him that charity began at home. But Dad felt that David and I were established, and he wanted to give back to the world and memorialize Mom and himself. As many of you know, Dad made significant contributions to The Jackson Laboratory; Ruth may speak to this philanthropy. Dad also recently made a seed donation to the Capital Campaign at the Wildflower Gardens, a place where Mom volunteered for decades; David MacDonald may speak to this philanthropy. I would like to speak to his education charities. Dad’s family was quite poor. Not only was he the first Coleman to graduate from college and graduate school; I believe that he was the first Coleman to complete high school. And this was not because his parents were stupid or unmotivated; it was because they had to work. Mom and Dad met at McMaster University in Hamilton, Ontario, and it was at McMaster where Dad established several bursary accounts to assist students in need. I always knew that he had done this, but it was only recently, as I have been going through his papers, that I began to appreciate the magnitude of these donations. In aggregate, these bursary accounts are now worth nearly three-quarters of a million dollars and they have assisted nearly 80 students since inception. The magnitude of this assistance has been up to nearly 20% of tuition, depending on the need. I am proud to say that I played a larger role in a second education charity. Several years ago, Dad discussed with me his desire to set up a charity to help local high school students attend college. I suggested that, rather than reinvent the wheel, he pool his resources with the Northeast Harbor Library Scholarship Fund, which has been doing exactly this mission since the 1950s. This idea immediately resonated with Dad, as not only had this fund assisted my attending undergraduate studies at Dartmouth College, but also Mom had volunteered at the Northeast Harbor Library, archiving documents for more than 20 years. In 2010, Dad and I established the Beverly Coleman Scholarship Award of the Northeast Harbor Library Scholarship Fund to assist the higher education of local high school students. Significantly, both of these education charities are evergreen funds – they will continue assisting students in need for perpetuity. I believe that this is another good example of how Dad may be “vanished but not gone.” Offspring I am not going to dwell on this topic as it seems self-serving, but clearly the offspring of any parent is, perhaps, their greatest legacy. I happen to believe that life can be desperately hard for many, and that I have led a privileged life. Suffice to say, I sincerely hope that my brother David, son Benjamin and I will continue in this tradition of helping to make the world a better place. Conclusion Finally, I would like to thank the many of you who helped make my parent’s lives more enjoyable. It takes a village to allow a person to die with dignity and Bar Harbor is an exemplary village. I would also like to single out one person for special commendation: Beth Bishop. Beth Bishop is a force of nature, a force of compassion and a force of great love. Beth started working for my father as a house cleaner three or four years ago, but as his health deteriorated, she began to use her considerable nursing skills. As many of you know, Dad had a nasty cancer drilling into the back of his head. When I first saw this wound, I was quite sure that Dad would die of an infection. For nearly two years, Beth cleaned Dad’s wound every day. I still consider it somewhat of a miracle that during these two years, the wound never got infected. But Beth is not just a great nurse; she is equally handy with a hammer and nail or fixing a phone that won’t work or getting a computer to do what you want. Recall that all of these skills are of immeasurable value when you are dealing with someone who, like my father, does not see. More than anyone else, Beth allowed Dad to die the way he wished, which was at his home in his bed. In fact, Beth had made a solemn vow to help Dad die at home, and she fulfilled this vow. When Dad took his final fall, I was in Indiana on business, but Beth was by his side very shortly. She could not get him into bed and engaged the county ambulance to assist her. Of course they wanted to take him to the hospital, but Beth would hear none of this. They persisted, and Beth showed them the “do not resuscitate” and last wishes taped to the refrigerator door. Yet they continued to maintain that Dad had to go to the hospital. So Beth politely yet firmly informed them that they could either help her or they could leave. They helped her. During the final 10 days, brother David, his partner Kelley and I were with Dad, but we were not alone. Many of you came to visit, offering support and meals. Most critically, we had Beth Bishop. Without fail, Beth came every morning to give Dad a sponge bath, clean his wound and see how the night went. She returned every evening after work, sometimes remaining until midnight. She was also with us all day on most of her days off and she was with us when Dad’s body finally gave out, and would not leave until the hearse had. Perhaps the highest praise I can give Beth is to express the hope to all of you that when your family has a crisis of this nature, that you too will be blessed with an angel like Beth to help hold things together. Thank you for coming today. Whether it is the science, the charities, the offspring or perhaps the humor in the face of adversity, I do believe that a positive legacy lives on from my parent’s lives. They may be vanished but not gone.
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