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Information Booklet
*This booklet is available in alternative formats
on request – Please contact office.
WHO WE ARE
The South Ayrshire Befriending Project (SABP) is a small locally run charity based in
Ayr, which was established in 1996 when the need for a befriending service for young
people with social or emotional difficulties within South Ayrshire was identified. SABP
also extends to young people with learning difficulties or a diagnosed medical condition
through our Buddies Project.
SABP supports around 50 young people each year through the provision of 1:1
befriending and group activities.
We receive funding from a variety of grant making bodies and trusts as well as private
donations and a contribution from the local council.
The Project’s full team consists of three part time Co-ordinators and one Project
Assistant who oversee the daily running of SABP. It is managed by a Management
Committee of volunteers with different professional backgrounds and their own specific
remit within the Project. We also have advisors from the local council Social Work &
HR Departments, Strathclyde Police and the Scottish Children’s Reporter’s Department.
WHAT WE DO & FOR WHOM WE DO IT
SABP provides supportive 1:1 befriending relationships for socially isolated and
vulnerable young people aged between 8 and 18 years old who live in South Ayrshire,
delivering a relevant, professional and needs led service. We aim to achieve individual
outcomes for the young people we support (eg : reduction in isolation, increased
confidence and resilience, improved well being) fitting well with the social policy goals
set by both local and the Scottish Government.
SABP recruits and trains adult volunteers (aged 18+) from South Ayrshire to befriend
young people on a 1:1 basis. Befrienders are then matched for at least 6 months and
a maximum of 2 years with a young person and are supported throughout by Project
Co-ordinators.
SABP provides a quality service and has been accredited with the national Volunteer
Friendly Award & the new national befriending award QiB (Quality in Befriending) from
Befriending Network at excellence level. These achievements ensure a consistent
high quality service is provided by assessing key management and operational areas.
AIMS & OBJECTIVES
The primary aim of befriending is to enhance the quality of life for the young people we
support by offering them the opportunity to form a trusting relationship with the adult
befriender they are matched with.
The Project works towards 4 main outcomes for its service users 1. Reduction of social isolation in young people supported by matching them
with an adult befriender, offering them the opportunity to take part in a wide
range of different activities locally.
2. Children & young people will have improved confidence and self esteem,
acquiring the ability to actively make their own positive choices. They will be
achieving and realising their potential, from involvement with the service.
3. Children & young people will be respected, and heard and involved in decisions
which affect them and in Project development.
4. Volunteers will develop long lasting and transferable skills of benefit to
themselves, the Project and the wider community.
THE ROLE OF A BEFRIENDER
The role of a befriender is to provide informal and social support through meeting their
young person on a fortnightly basis for a few hours – this can be to go swimming,
bowling, help with homework at the library, out for dinner – many things, with the main
focus being on spending 1:1 time and building up a trusting relationship. There may be
some particular individual stated objectives at the start of the relationship, eg – raising
confidence or joining a local group. While the success of the relationship is not
dependent on these being achieved, success in that regard is, however, seen to be an
additional benefit of befriending.
PERSON SPECFICATION
Essential Requirements
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to attend and successfully complete a 12 hour Volunteer training course held
over 4 sessions
to be non judgmental, respecting people’s differences
successful completion of Enhanced Disclosure and becoming a new member
/ updating existing membership of the PVG Scheme
to commit to their role for a minimum of 6 months, meeting a young person
every 2 weeks
to be sufficiently independent to meet travel requirements, by walking, public
transport or car
to be comfortable working on their own independently and in group settings
to be able to seek advice and support from Co-ordinator when necessary
Desirable Requirements
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to be able to communicate well with others
to have an understanding or awareness of some issues faced by young people referred to the Project
to be able to focus on the needs of the young person
to be willing to participate in a broad range of activities
VOLUNTEER PROCESS
• Volunteer makes an initial enquiry to Project
• Application form completed and returned
• References are requested and initial volunteer interview
arranged
• Volunteers invited to training sessions if suitable following
successful update or registration with PVG
• Completion of 12 hour training course and post training
interview complete
• Volunteers are selected for 1:1 match, group volunteering or
signposted elsewhere.
REFERRAL CRITERIA
Anyone can refer a young person to the Project. If not from a statutory agency the
referrer will be asked to complete Projects own Referral form.
Priority will be given to young people who are considered to be medium/high need.
However in order to be accepted the young person must meet the following criteria :-
*Socially Isolated Young person must have :(ii) very limited or no positive peer interaction & acceptance
(ii) very limited or no adult support to access social & recreational activities within
their local community.
REFERRAL PROCESS
The majority of our referrals come from statutory agencies through the Locality Forum
but referrals from voluntary agencies and young people and their families can also be
made. Co-ordinators are able to offer assistance to help complete referral forms if
necessary. The diagram below outlines the referral process –
• Referrals can be taken all year round and will be assessed on
an ongoing basis.
• Referrer sends a referral form and any additional information for
YP into Project. Referral form assessed by co-ordinators and
YP home visit and assessment carried out and decision made
whether or not to accept referral as appropriate.
• Referrer/YP/Families will be informed of outcome.
• If accepted • Referral receipt letter given to referrer and a copy of waiting list
procedures.
• Young person added to waiting list and database and informed
of outcome.
• When identified for a match a co-ordinator will contact YP and
referrer to see if service still required and appropriate.
• A YP match meeting will take place.
• If suitable, match will progress with young person’s consent. If
not young person goes back onto waiting list or is withdrawn.
WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT?
YOUNG PEOPLE :
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Each young person will gain access through 1:1 outings and group outings to
a variety of locally based activities.
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SABP will seek to provide a route for young people to pursue activities they
develop an interest in.
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Regular joint and group outings will provide opportunity for friendships to emerge
and social skills to develop which can then be used elsewhere.
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A young person’s confidence and self esteem will rise and hopefully empower
them to be able to make positive life choices.
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A befriender will offer a young person a positive role model to build a trusting
relationship with until they no longer have the need or the time for a befriender.
VOLUNTEERS :
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Continued development of skills through undertaking initial volunteer training.
Additional internal and external training opportunities offered regularly thereafter.
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Regular support reviews with co-ordinator throughout match.
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Participate in a broad range of activities on a 1:1 basis with young person or
as a group volunteer at group outings.
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Develop new interests and skills.
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Opportunity to attend regular volunteer sessions facilitated by the Project.
Sessions are tailored specifically to meet the needs of the volunteers and
include a mixture of social evenings, information sessions and accredited
training.
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Gain valuable experience of working with young people.
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Satisfaction gained from giving something back to the local community.
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To have volunteer expenses met by the Project.
REFERRERS:
· Regular contact & updates as to how match is progressing.
· Invites to comprehensive reviews every 3 – 4 months.
· To share information regarding young person and be informed of any concern
/ changes in YP’s circumstances.
PARENTS:
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To receive a Parents’ Handbook and be made aware of Project’s Policies &
Procedures relating to their child.
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To have regular contact with Project Co-ordinator to discuss match progress
or any concerns.
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To be aware information will be gathered and shared with relevant agencies
involved with their child.
*For information on how to make a Complaint /
Compliment or Comment please contact the office.
South Ayrshire Befriending Project
4A Citadel Place, Ayr KA7 1JN
92 2
64000
Tel. 012
0129
264000
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